How long are you willing to wait for a date?

ProofTimely5788 · 2025-01-24T23:47:38+00:00

I waited about 2 hours for a first date. She became a really awesome FWB. You gotta judge the situation and risk vs reward. At that time I didn't have much going on and I also found her extremely attractive. Also I could tell she was a genuine girl from my guest convo with her. Plus, she kept updating me every so often so I didn't feel like I was going to get stood up (although I knew there was a chance).

outplay-nation · 2025-01-25T03:12:28+00:00

I once was stuck in traffic and texted a girl id be 15minute late. When I arrived I was blocked lmao

tilldeathdoiparty · 2025-01-25T01:28:07+00:00

I don’t consider anything before 15 minutes as late. On a first date, if they’re going to be 5 late, I would hope to get a courtesy text, definitely if they’re more than 10. This is how I act and don’t think it’s unreasonable.

I am also in touch the day of, typically arranging we meet outside so we can walk in together, this is part of confirming what time they’ll be there. I can pick up a vibe off of that, and they can cancel then or if they’re are going to flake they typically won’t confirm.

Not in a needy way, just some light playful banter and increasing the anticipation of seeing each other.

I find the women I am attracted to appreciate this approach.

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2025-01-24T23:29:51+00:00

Exactly how long she says lol also I never go to a place I wouldn’t be okay eating at by myself if I ever get stood up. Ligit it’s a “their loss” situation for me if they don’t wanna get grub together 😂

burncushlikewood · 2025-01-24T23:54:39+00:00

It depends if she's communicating or not, look life can get busy sometimes I understand....but if it's been 15 minutes, haven't heard anything, im going home lol

Dandys3107 · 2025-01-25T08:28:38+00:00

You can talk it through directly with her, right? There is really no point in making her guess how she should behave in this case.

shathecomedian · 2025-01-26T21:23:24+00:00

Uh, idk depends, in this circumstance id says 20 mins

Cheap-Housing-1631 · 2025-02-19T19:01:19+00:00

Waiting is fine, but too much can kill the vibe. Instead of focusing on time, keep things light and engaging so the energy stays alive.

If you want to refine your approach, Kai is a great tool to sharpen social and texting skills. At the end of the day, confidence and good timing matter most!

Title	How long are you willing to wait for a date?
Author	ConsiderationHour710
Upvotes	3
Comments	8
Date	January 24, 2025 11:25 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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