How much texting after second date?

guyatlas · 2016-06-29T05:13:08+00:00

Leave texting to a minimum

Example: Sexy lady: hey what you doing? You: hey! What's up! Doing great... Working out 💪🏻 Sexy lady: oh nice! I won't keep you. You: no worries. What are you up to Friday? Sexy lady: I have plans with my girlfriends, but Saturday I'm free. You: Cool, How does 7pm sound? I'll pick you up? Sexy lady: yeah that can work You: wear something sexy. 😉 See you Saturday night!

Done, don't text again, pick her up and talk about life in person! If she texts back are we still on , just say of course, looking forward to it. Don't get wrapped up in a long texting conversation. Let her wonder about you.

You can add a little more you into this but of course it's just a framework that does work.

Tontobutt · 2016-06-29T03:06:19+00:00

Side bar - Text game 2.

guyatlas · 2016-06-29T05:23:04+00:00

To add just initiate, the text about setting the date then.

Dinner And drinks Saturday, with yours truly 😎? Sounds fun. Pick you up at 7, or meet me at "wherever" Then done.

Like first comment, less is always more. If there is more blue/green than gray on your texting (iPhone reference) tone it the fuck back.

guyatlas · 2016-06-29T05:42:22+00:00

Not sure if my other remark came through but like I said it is just a generic framework and you will add your own color.

The idea I'm conveying is that too often guys text and text and text and we become too accessible and then we wonder why the girl all of a sudden stops texting. It's all over Reddit with questions, why did she ghost me?

2 dates isn't really a lot. I'm not sure how old you are, and you may have a great rapport with this girl, just keep it to a minimum and you should be good.

mxsnsfw · 2016-06-29T06:28:38+00:00

If you haven't been texting a lot your texts should be about setting up future dates.

"Hey, what are you up to tonight?" "Doing anything exciting later? I'm doing blah blah blah." "What's your schedule like this week?"

Once you've get a rapport going you can start to send more catching up texts.

"Hey! How's your day going?" "What are you up to?" "-some call back to something you were talking about-" "-some link to something she stated interest in-"

Also, just text whatever you want. Stop focusing on what she might want you to say, and started focusing on what you yourself want to say. Sure, you might have some blow outs, but you'll learn more from them.

TheXXL · 2016-06-29T07:33:10+00:00

My question is, how much texting is supposed to go on at this point?

The general law in texting a girl you have been on two dates is stated in the texting book, at page 265, paragraph 2: "You shall text her on exactly 1.425 occasions throughout the days Thursday, Sunday and monday, times 1:32:22pm to 3:32:50. If you not obey those laws you will be fined at an amount of 2500$ per text."

And what should we be texting about? I'm not the best texter, so examples would be awesome.

The laws about what to text.... argh screw that, you get my point. You are overthinking, there is no general rule! No matter what anyone else tells you, there. are. no. rules!

So, now we got this out of the way, i will tell you what you could do, and even this is with no guarantee to succeed, since it all depends on so many factors. Text her whenever you feel like you have something to share with her. Text her as long as you think you are not annoying her, or you feel you are not putting in too much effort. Believe me when i say that we all have this thing called instinct, which tells us if something is not a good idea, if you follow that instinct, you will be fine either way. Sure you might do something wrong, but this is life, the beautiful thing where we all make mistakes and hopefully learn from those mistakes.

About what to text: If you don't know what to text, just don't text at all. Only text something if you have reason for it. Who want's to read a text like "hey how are you doing?" - "i'm fine how are you?" - "i'm fine too...." - silence. Just a few days ago i was sitting at my desk at work, a double chocolate muffin filled with nougat in front of me, and it looked so delicios, i made picture of it, and sent it to a girl i am talking to. Her reply was "omg! i want it!" I joked around for a few minutes and told her i need to keep working. Yesterday we agreed on a date, and she mentioned that it will only be happening if i bring her one of those delicious muffins, i laughed my ass off. This is what you should try to do, share little bits of your life with her, make her remember those things to always have some inside joke at bay. I could now text her whenever i want with "remember that muffin? guess what, i have another one muhahaha!".

Title	How much texting after second date?
Author	Rawr_I_am_a_Beer
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	June 29, 2016 2:02 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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