Any tips for a hiking first date?

Strike48 · 2016-06-07T03:40:48+00:00

Playful kino always, do things like help each other up over big rocks, piggy back rides(her on top obviously), etc. Hiking is really fun. At one point, if you're not a toothpick and the kino game has been slowly building to the point where you're comfortable touching each other. Pick her up in your arms and carry her up for a bit. You can even go for the first kiss there as she's in your arms if you're feeling ballsy. It's cheesy af, but who cares. Just have fun dude.

Btw, that camera kiss sounds awful to me, but if you have fun doing that and you think it works well to build attraction then you do that. Personally, I feel it's a bit sneaky and sly. I like to go towards the more direct sexual tension road with teases that eventually lead to kisses/makeouts. I feel like a tiny kiss on the cheek gives off a big "I want to kiss you, but I am testing the waters first because I'm not that confident" kinda vibe. Maybe you can try a camera lip kiss instead? As she's adjusting the camera look at her, grab her chin, turn her head slowly towards yours and go in for a kiss.

dogfuckcancer · 2016-06-07T00:21:41+00:00

This my general rule for first dates and it works well for me. If your about to do something and if you think about it for a minute and realize it's something Michael Scott would do...don't do that thing. In all seriousness I have no real advice other than be chill and treat her like a person. Good Luck

broncoflyer8912 · 2016-06-07T02:35:29+00:00

Do many girls think this is a great first date idea?? I would think they would be worried about you murdering them...

alex0919 · 2016-06-07T02:21:02+00:00

This is just my opinion, so if you get consistent results from these kind of dates (sex), definitely discount me, I have something to learn.

But in general, something inconvenient and harder to control like this isn't extremely conducive to the two of you getting together as lovers if things go well. Plus girls will be self conscious if they're sweaty and smelly and your intentions are to have sex so that just means even more resistance.

My tips to salvage this would be:

Try to end the hike before she gets tired (Hint: If you think the two of you are having a hard time conversing, she's probably starting to get physically exhausted) and take her somewhere to sit. Don't they have benches at those places?
Continue escalating, building comfort, and when she seems to be enjoying herself, invite her over for some refreshments (e.g. water, lemonade, probably not alcohol during the day).

Skullydugg · 2016-06-07T08:29:30+00:00

Once you get out far enough, she won't say no. You know, because of 'the implication'.

Snazzy_Serval · 2016-06-07T00:32:56+00:00

Talk, joke have fun. Be sure to touch her throughout the hike in ways that make sense.

If the kiss selfie thing works for you then by all means.

jefffffffff · 2016-06-07T02:36:03+00:00

so much kino oppertunity during a hike. if your walking past another group of people and the space is narrow put your hand on her back and guide her through. also during some steep parts hold her hand and help her down (only if its really steep and if she acts scared). bring a killer lunch/ snacks in a backback.

ddramer · 2016-06-07T04:01:41+00:00

I like your selfie plan! As people have mentioned, playful touching awesome, butt bump her as you walk, brush hair from her eyes, hand holding etc...

You could also try some role reversal role play:

Walk ahead of her and accuse her of checking out your ass. Mention how secluded the area is and tell her she better not be thinking of taking advantage of you because you can scream really loud. Tell her how strong and powerful her legs are as she climbs ahead of you.

Rx_LoveII · 2016-06-07T00:58:35+00:00

Active, unconventional dates are fantastic for getting to know someone for the first time. As with anything relating to picking up women - just enjoy yourself. Be the catalyst of a good time. If you are having fun you are fun to be around.

I don't think you will have to rely on the hail-mary play of the selfie kiss move.

IBeStrokin121 · 2016-06-07T09:37:58+00:00

Bring duct tape, chloroform, and a protein-rich high-energy snack

joelfarris · 2016-06-07T05:01:19+00:00

No stumble-and-grab for stability?

No I'm-out-can-I-share-your-camelbak-now-we've-kissed?

Must. Be. More. Playful. It's a great big world out there.

tennisbreather · 2016-06-07T06:13:56+00:00

Tbh. I would just not give a fuck about anything. Let your personality flow.

loosetingles · 2016-06-07T07:41:37+00:00

do not do the selfie kiss thing, especially on a first date

ThreesusShuttleworth · 2016-06-07T08:42:09+00:00

I'm more worried about the ride there, but I live like 1.5 hours from the nearest good hike spot so that might be why....

TeunB · 2016-06-07T09:13:07+00:00

You should bring a backpack with some food for a small picknick :-)

ZayneD · 2016-06-07T10:02:11+00:00

Be very playful and be sure to pick a relatively easy hike. Super sweaty dates aren't ideal.

zomgitsduke · 2016-06-07T16:53:20+00:00

Be prepared. Bring water, small snacks, plastic zip lock bags for phones if it rains, a phone charger battery, jacket, and hand sanitizer.

ruhri · 2016-06-07T19:29:24+00:00

I've done this before and it went well and was fun. Go at a comfortable pace that allows the two of you to be playfully chatty and flirty. In these situations it's more about enjoying the scenery and getting to know the person you are with than trying to get to a certain destination. Take frequent stops to just look sit and rest, observe your surroundings, goof off, etc. Makeout sessions with dramatic scenery as the backdrop are quite pleasant and fun imo.

cehmu · 2016-06-08T12:06:25+00:00

thanks for this thread. forgot how much i live hiking, and what a nice thing it is to share with a cutey.

also totally breaks the neediness in me, cos anyway going for a nice hike is awesome, so nothing lost if she isn't my type.

tennisbreather · 2016-06-07T06:13:20+00:00

Damn. The kiss on the cheek bro. Thats smart lmaooo

mellybop27 · 2016-06-07T12:18:12+00:00

See if you can find a Geo cache or even set up your own! Gives you a reason to stop for a bit and it's fun.

2016-06-07T07:12:44+00:00

Lots of kino opportunities on the hike. You lead the way and put your arm on her lower back to get her started. When you see something cool you grab or to turn her and look at it, etc. Bring a bottle of LIGHT wine (pinot grigio, or something similar, don't get a fucking bottle of cab for the hike) and two plastic wine cups or a red cup works fine too. Find a place to be quiet with her, connect with nature, face her, and have her open up. what's her biggest goal? Fear? accomplishment?What are things like with her parents? Make her feel GOOD. Drink no more than half the bottle of champagne at this point and save the rest.

Bounce her for two reasons: 1) compliance and 2) The more places you go with a woman the better connected she'll feel to you. find a new lanmark spot where you can sit with her side by side. Put your arm around her and tell her your glad she came. Leave it there for a second - don't fucking kiss her. Attraction PEAKS at the first kiss, don't waste it somewhere where you can't fucking do anything about it.

Drink the second half of the bottle and get her back to yours. Or, if not, give her a nice wet good bye. Then, go find more dates and forget about her until she texts you. Have more booze and food at your place - don't want to get whisky dick.

Title	Any tips for a hiking first date?
Author	Rawr_I_am_a_Beer
Upvotes	41
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Date	June 6, 2016 11:28 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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