So with most of the women I've ever had something going on I was lucky that the majority of them have been very proactive during the whole process (before I started using dating apps). Last year however I was using Bumble and I had many dates, got laid quite a few times but I have to admit that these women were clearly under my league (most of them).

Now I am aware that dating apps are very overwhelming for girls, especially for attractive ones so they tend to be more passive generally if they are not ridiculously into you. My biggest doubt is always the question of pursuing. Do you think that you already lost your game if a woman turns down a date without suggesting another time always indicates that they have no interest? When I schedule dates, I always propose two options from which they can choose, and sometimes it happens, that they say they're unavailable for whatever reason, but don't suggest another time (when they do it's clearly a sign of high interest and of that I am aware).

Do you pursure further in such situations or do you think that these mean that you should quit.