Usually with the girls I date I tend to be cold, and keep feeling in check. But once a blue moon I'll meet someone who checks all boxes, I become emotionally attach, and it spirals down. Suddenly in lose every bit of game I have, my cool is gone and I can't game her! I get too clingy, I hunger for her attention and the minute she pulls away I push harder.

Any suggestions on how to keep it on a reasonable level?