Sex on first date?

2016-12-06T01:21:07+00:00

It's all up to you and her and what you want. Personally, I try to have sex as soon as possible. Why? Because I like sex lol. But that doesn't mean I'm not looking for something more serious ether. So just do what you want. If she indicates she doesn't just have casual sex, and you're not looking for anything serious, just be honest and next her. There's plenty of girls looking for casual sex as well.

james-robertson · 2016-12-06T00:35:52+00:00

I prefer dating girls that smush right away - shows they have a good sex drive and that they're physically into me.

Most of the women I've slept with have been within 3 dates. It doesn't seem to hurt my chances of getting a relationship.

biker-dude · 2016-12-06T02:00:16+00:00

I'm a boobs lover, so I try to at least check the ripeness and quality of the melons before I invest more money and time... Also, I prefer organics.

Seriously though, I don't think it's going to make a difference either way and this will largely depend on the dynamic of your relationship with the girl. Sex is great and important, but there are other aspects about her that's going to be just as important in the long run. After all, how long can you put up with a girl who is awesome in bed but annoys the crap out of you whenever you're not having sex? Not very long... So make sure she's quality inside and out.

Adrian7100 · 2016-12-06T05:25:41+00:00

That's really strange to hear recommendations NOT to sleep with a girl as soon as possible on Seddit. The whole purpose of this sub is to discuss SEDUCTION, which is a process/technique of seducing girls as fast as possible and as efficiently as possible.

And seducing means "get laid", not "get acquainted with each other" or something.

And all those hypocrites saying how they would not consider a girl for a serious relationship if she sleeps with them on a first date, really shouldn't be here.

If you're a pro and can seduce girl faster than average guy, that doesn't mean at all that she is a whore. It only means that you're good.

monkeyman114 · 2016-12-06T01:02:09+00:00

I dont recommend it. My only first date sex experience was with a girl i already knew for years and trusted. The first date is meant to be a meet, greet and get comfortable session

RytekBJJ · 2016-12-06T02:29:28+00:00

I'm still unsure on deciding when to have sex. Have a 4th date coming up this weekend with a woman and still deciding if I want to or not. But I definitely would not respect a woman sleeping on a first date. I've had women try to sleep with me on the second date and that ruined any chance of long term interest for me. Sure, sex is fun and all, but I'm 30 and I'm looking for something more long-term. I'm very healthy, so unless I die of unnatural causes like getting hit by a drunk driver, I'm gonna live for another 50-60 years. Totally worth it to put off sex for a few weeks or months to make sure you find a quality woman for a serious relationship with.

NaarAlfa · 2016-12-06T10:41:35+00:00

Depends on what your intensions are? Do you just want to have casual sex of something more? If something something more then I would not have sex on first date, then I would wait 2-3 dates. One good rule is: Have sex when you have an emotional connection. This will make sex better and if you want something more then this will also help.

Kep it up Oliver! PEACE

Turlast · 2016-12-06T05:27:16+00:00

These responses, lol.

Anyway, nothing wrong with sex on the first date.

evil_misogynist · 2016-12-06T05:58:49+00:00

IMO: always be escalating. I always try for the first date sex. But if I get it, I do naturally tend to think the girl is too loose for a serious relationship.

Tamazin_ · 2016-12-06T11:23:13+00:00

If i'm concidering the girl to be serious material, i.e. someone i definitely would like to have as a girlfriend, i try to not have sex the first date or even second or third. But other than that i always have sex on the first date more or less.

PUA_Mobius · 2016-12-06T03:03:46+00:00

I try for sex on the first date - if I get it, she isn't relationship material. Because that means any guy can pull sex from her immediately and she's much more likely to cheat or have been with way too many guys prior.

If I can't get sex on the first or second or third or even 5th date but this girl is still totally engaging - I start a relationship

sorcererbro · 2016-12-05T23:58:30+00:00

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Title	Sex on first date?
Author	OlleOliver
Upvotes	19
Comments	34
Date	December 5, 2016 11:53 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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