Hey guys, as title say; what is a good answer to that question? Whenever I get it I'm caught completely off guard, and end up mumbling some along "uh ummm, uh I don't know".

If I say she did because "bla bla bla something" will my date hold that against me in a negative way.

And if I say I did it, I might come of as "a guy who dumps" people.

Any solid advice out there?