How should I stand & where are my hands when talking to a girl? (DEF not hands in pockets! bois)

farfar336 · 2019-08-27T06:37:33+00:00

Do not cross your arms or put your entire hand in your pocket, that conveys low confidence. You should either:

Keep your hands by your side, like this: https://www.gettyimages.ca/detail/photo/portrait-of-businessman-smiling-while-standing-royalty-free-image/998456956?adppopup=true
The thing I like about this is you can stick out your chest, widen your shoulders, and appear taller
Put your thumbs in your pocket, but keep your other fingers outside
If there is a table/chair, you can rest one hand on it, while on the other hand, you hold your phone near your thigh

smoothmax · 2019-08-25T23:19:15+00:00

I stand with all my weight on one foot. The foot with no weight is pulled up with the heel near the weight bearing foots ankle, at a 90 degree angle. The rest is a normal, upright posture with head and neck erect and shoulders rolled back and relaxed.

It's very restful, looks chill, and it's impossible to rock back and forth nervously.

You can keep the fingers of one hand in your pocket but not all the way in. Really smooth PUAs keep their hands free so they can gesture expressively a lot, lol.

Title	How should I stand & where are my hands when talking to a girl? (DEF not hands in pockets! bois)
Author	Everglade301
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	August 25, 2019 11:04 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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