How to even start? My mind goes completely blank.

thedudesmashes · 2020-06-13T20:03:21+00:00

Keep approaching, you'll eventually realize that theres no reason to freak out and freeze up and you'll slowly build confidence the more approaches you mess up.

I have solid approach game now but if I had an over ratio, it's probably be 1:5 hit/miss for the last 5 years of pick up.

IH31C · 2020-06-13T20:42:26+00:00

Personally I told myself I would approach at least one woman per day for 30 days. I continued that for almost 2 years until I decided to focus on improving my life overall. I've quit approaching women now because I'm focused on getting my entire life together but at the time the experience was what I needed for myself.

I would approach a woman telling her something that I liked about her, look, energy or style and then tell her that I wanted to find out who she is and see about getting together for a drink or coffee. Any combination of things would happen. On one end of the spectrum the girl would be weirded out and on the other end of the spectrum we'd meet up and we would eventually end up fucking. I would approach women everywhere I saw them. Grocery store, bar, club, street, bookstore.....it was interesting while it lasted.

porn-chicken · 2020-06-14T12:00:41+00:00

Go step by step. Find the limit of your tolerance and go just outside of it.

Instead of jumping straight to flirting, hold a conversation. Hold it for longer than you usually would.

Find ways to challenge the assumptions you have about women and yourself.

If embarrassment is a fear, put yourself in embarrassing situations. Realise that embarrassment can't harm you.

Title	How to even start? My mind goes completely blank.
Author	Poppenlock
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	June 13, 2020 7:35 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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