How to get an awesome life?

dailymanup · 2018-11-12T15:37:14+00:00

Check out this list of books I put together to help guys with exactly this question. Any one of these topics gives you (1) awesome things to do, (2) date ideas and (3) things to talk about with girls. There is no inherently right or wrong thing to do too give yourself an awesome life. The "right thing" is the thing that makes you happy and creates excitement for you. That excitement resonates from you and everyone around you can feel it. Including women.

Just start with 1 thing new that you find interesting. Learn about it. Do it. Take a girl on a date to do it. Tell people (particularly women) about what you're doing. Down the road, pick a 2nd thing. You only need a handful of passions to have an awesome life, you don't need to do everything in the world. So start with 1 and build from there. Very important - share your passions with women you're trying attractive. It's magnetic.

IrregularCaptain248 · 2018-11-12T11:34:27+00:00

You've began the course. You're most certainly a step ahead of me :p

Flash525 · 2018-11-12T12:07:36+00:00

Get yourself out there - it's easier said than done, I know, I'm working on it myself, but your/our trick is to meeting people outside of work and the nightlife scene (I guess?); volunteering (I figure) is the way forward, or at least a way forward.

TheRealTopFive · 2018-11-12T15:14:10+00:00

Whats your passion? How can you make money off of it? Who elsr in your area does what you do?

SelfLoveArmy · 2018-11-12T15:49:40+00:00

I wrote this as a post, but I recommend you read it, especially the funnel at the end. The important thing to understand is you are likely avoiding LOTS of things because of anxiety that you don't even realize. You probably won't ride public transport, for example, or may hate crowds, or public speaking, or sharing your feelings. I would catalog a list of behaviors you avoid and systematically expose yourself to those anxieties by engaging in those behaviors. For example, years ago I used to not enjoy going to a movie by myself (it seemed weird to me). I started going alone and it quickly became a favorite hobby of mine.

Here is the pertinent post for your convenience:

Strong + Hardcore = Cheat Codes.

Strength: Accept responsibility for your life. Let go of resentment. Find a vision of yourself where the world is filled with possibilities and all things are to your lasting, eternal benefit. So when I say that you are strong, I mean that you must know yourself and love your abiding strength.

Inside a Hardcore Mindset:

What if you never accepted a limit again, until you literally will die from pushing yourself? Not might. Would. Die. Then you rest and see if that was a temporary limit.

Actually risk your life? Nope. But I'd advise you to get close to the point where there is a risk without actually risking it.

Do you have any idea where that line is for you?

Have you ever intentionally sought that out?

How many of us are actually pushing to see what we can be?

How much more can we become? What are any of us waiting for?

Being hardcore is chick crack. It's like an intoxicating cologne.

When you know yourself and what you are capable of you have presence. If being present is the most attractive thing you can be, then being present as a bad ass motherfucker is doubly so.

And the only one stopping you from being bad ass is YOU

Hi guys. I am a fan of "seduction" and regularly work with top guys from around the world. I've got a lot of content I'll be sharing moving forward. I focus on the importance of vulnerability, strength, boundaries, confronting fear. I write about self love, self care, avoiding self harm, having powerful mindsets, and developing emotionally so that you can be truly effective and easily have a compelling emotional impact. I have a community on Facebook you can join if you want to see more.

I'll end this quick post with an action funnel I found useful:

Step one: immediately decide to learn a new skill, and a social hobby.

Step two: immediately seek out experts in that field and study their advice. Immediately enroll in the social hobby.

Step three: force yourself to share the things you've learned from those experts with others. In the hobby group, ask others in the group to meet up later. Meet with them and do fun shit.

Step four: write about what you want to accomplish with this new skill. Spend 8 minutes visualizing using it and how it will change you and what this new competency will feel like. Continue to engage in the social hobby, and consider reaching out to others who have the same hobby and seeing if you can link up.

Step five: Share your progress with your new skill by recording your efforts and letting others see it. On the way to your social hobby, approach any attractive woman you see and ask her to join you in this hobby. Get her number and plan a future hobby day.

Step six: Do step one through five one more time.

Indyrect4Lyfe · 2018-11-12T16:57:15+00:00

> It seems like this part is never explained

Which suggests that the whole idea is unrealistic and just something people push to get positive guys to buy their ebooks and get them channel views.

Conor_Niggregor · 2018-11-12T21:22:48+00:00

Find a way to make recurring/passive income
Automate the process with outsourcers, SaaS, etc
Scale it up until you're making enough to afford the lifestyle you want
Now that you have time and money, you can start gaining life experiences by traveling your country and the rest of the world, going to concerts, festivals, seminars, pua boot camps, fitness expos, sporting events, fashion shows, etc.
Also, since you have time & money, you can afford to follow your true passion in life. Your true passion. Remember when we were 7, we all wanted to be rockstars, pro wrestlers, astronauts, video game creators... well you have the time and money to pursue these dreams now
Your life is now "awesome"

Title	How to get an awesome life?
Author	aspieor
Upvotes	3
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Date	November 12, 2018 11:32 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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