How to get yourself to actually push through your anxiety to start conversations

XdoseoffreedomX · 2020-05-11T17:31:24+00:00

This was key damnnn

StarsnDiamonds · 2020-05-11T17:26:49+00:00

Long story short:

Identify the list of your problems: the things that bother you that you need to fix/work on.
Work on them from top to bottom. If dating happens to be the most important thing for you, then you will have much less resistance when you work on progression.

That said, if you have other more important things, such as your living situation or health, that bother you more, work on those first.

Secondly, realize that the fact that you like a girl is the emotion she desires. You don't need all the extra fluff (it helps) that people say you need to get girls. Expressing your like/desire to talk to her (intent), and sticking in over a prolonged period of time, is often more than enough to attract someone.

The sheer fact that you're a man means that girls will like talking to you. A lot of the time, your hesitance or self criticism is self-created, and is not an accurate reflection of reality (which leads to self sabotage and giving up).

Title	How to get yourself to actually push through your anxiety to start conversations
Author	StarsnDiamonds
Upvotes	1
Comments	2
Date	May 11, 2020 5:22 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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