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| 0 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝Try it out before you bat it down | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 08:36 PM |
| 0 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝go out there and try it out and you'll find out for yourself ;) | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Where to meet women if don’t drink and no online apps?Cafe, Local Mall, Anywhere that peope go shopping, the beach... just think of anywhere you can hang out. An added tip... you can go to nightlife places like restaurants and bars... and not drink yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/08/21 03:13 AM |
| 11 | Don't limit your resources when it comes to meeting women. Online dating is a useful option to meet attractive women, if you approach it properly and don't take it too seriously. My experience and recommendations.Good stuff man! Thanks for getting in the mud, testing stuff yourself, and coming back out with the gold nuggets of information to share! Love to see it. I'd like to add that Tinder is INSANE if you know how to use it. 1 week of testing is not enough to write it off. It's a hookup app (and it seems your profile is more relationship-ey). Shirtless photos, Dominant Photos, Provocative sexual bios work really well on tinder (if you know how to be classy about it) | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I wasted my teens and 20s focusing narrowly on savings money. I did not enjoy the process or experience much in life. I am socially a hermit and have never even flirted with a girl. How do I unscrew my situation?Its amazing that you identified this pattern inside yourself. The need to save and not spend, not risk losing the hard earned money you've earned. So what is the path before you? You need to take risks. You need to lose money. You need to invest in things that may or may not help you. Invest in travels, coaches, and enjoyment. Invest in yourself. It's like putting money in a business. Its gone. And the only person responsible for utilizing it is you. And you can make that 200k into 2 million, if… | /r/seduction | 27/07/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.Yeah it’s nuts. And it’s hard to even question it unless you’ve drastically changed your living situation at least once | /r/seduction | 01/07/21 04:46 AM |
| 1 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.You're already enough, but reliving and projecting your previous trauma will get negative reactions from girls. If you saw yourself as a super star, awesome, amazing guy that is worth any girl (which only your trauma would prevent that perspective), you would get any girl. Thats the point of this post. | /r/seduction | 18/06/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.The people that need this information most won’t receive it. It will fall upon deaf ears. Don’t push it off until you try it. You’ll be surprised what you find if you keep an open mind and truly surrender to the scientific method (trying new information full heartedly, without bias) | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 08:59 PM |
| 1 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.It’s no doubt you can fake it till you make it. That’s one route to success What do women perceive as high value? Inner peace. I’ve gotten with some of the hottest girls wearing some of my most ragged clothes. All girls care for is if you can receive their feminine energy. And give them masculine energy. As men, we all have that masculine deep inside. You can either develop it by forcing it through eye contact, etc, or through healing and letting it come naturally. I’ve found both paths to be ap… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 08:57 PM |
| 2 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.How do you know what they don’t love is the fact that you’re fat? | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 06:35 AM |
| -5 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.Women love fat guys | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 06:30 AM |
| 30 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.The belief that you are repugnant is the trauma you need to fix. There are tons of guys your height and shorter that are loved by women. That belief prevents you from accepting love and prevents you from seeing the positive signals that women give you. Where did you get that belief? Who told you that at first? It might be deep down and repressed. Or not. But try to remember who first taught you that belief. That’s 1 persons opinion, not reaity | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 03:52 AM |
| 48 | You are attractive if you get rid of all the bullshit.Thats part of trauma healing. Your location, your patterns, etc are hyper important. Thats super amazing that you took that step. Toxic families are a big part of many people's trauma. It's important that you give it to yourself though that you had that incredibly difficult past. And its important that you recognize that the voice in your head that self deprecates and shoves you down is not you: its learned from your family. And thats not you. That gives you some freedom. That said, it's imp… | /r/seduction | 17/06/21 01:58 AM |
| 4 | 𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐧𝐞𝐞𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐮𝐥𝐭𝐬 𝐫𝐮𝐢𝐧𝐬 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐠𝐫𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐢𝐫𝐥𝐬, 𝐚𝐧𝐝 𝐡𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐨 𝐠𝐞𝐭 𝐨𝐯𝐞𝐫 𝐢𝐭. + Some mindsets from Arnold Schwarzenegger applied to dating.Glad it helped :) | /r/seduction | 22/10/20 08:51 AM |
| 12 | How to Push Through Approach Anxiety and Hesitation ConsistentlyWhen you feel anxious, and you just don't know what to do in order to get yourself out of that paralysis, what options do you have? First of all, eliminate that Knee Jerk response of stopping and going. That is the draining part of not talking to girls. Let go of your self judgement, and self criticism. That just makes the pressure more intense. Instead, cut through that stop-go pattern by making a decision to take action before you go out. Make a decision when you're calm, at home, to just do t… | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 06:38 PM |
| 2 | What topics should you talk about with a girl?You don't need to make a girl laugh through jokes, ever. It's not productive for attracting her or becoming more intimate You can talk about anything, as long as you're genuinely interested in it. As for sexualizing the interaction, you can do that simply by spacing your words out, talking more slowly, and through eye contact (no need to verbalize the sexuality) | /r/seduction | 07/10/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls to admire you.yeah 100% | /r/seduction | 02/10/20 08:41 AM |
| 3 | 𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙉𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝙆𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝘼𝙗𝙤𝙪𝙩 𝙏𝙚𝙭𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙂𝙞𝙧𝙡𝙨 𝘼𝙛𝙩𝙚𝙧 𝙈𝙚𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙏𝙝𝙚𝙢 𝙄𝙣 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙤𝙣Did you read the 2nd to last line? | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 5 | 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐏𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞Just dont take the reactions girls give you personally. If they dont like you, dont create the identity that you are not liked by girls. Realizing that a single persons reaction to you is insignificant (and inaccurate) in the sea of 7 billion people on this planet helps tremendously. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 06:43 AM |
| -6 | 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐏𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞What makes you think that? | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 06:13 AM |
| -3 | 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐏𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞Thanks | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 04:40 AM |
| 1 | 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐏𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞Authenticity is key. Authentic to your intentions, and authentic to your personality. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 04:18 AM |
| -3 | 𝐇𝐨𝐰 𝐈 𝐏𝐮𝐥𝐥𝐞𝐝 𝐚 𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐞𝐞𝐬𝐨𝐦𝐞Lmao yeah man I'm too passionate about this stuff man. After it clicks, it's too addicting. I hope through these stories I can share the experience and boost others to have the motivation to stick in and go for it. | /r/seduction | 23/09/20 03:48 AM |
| 1 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.You caught me | /r/seduction | 20/09/20 04:08 AM |
| 1 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.Only the classiest. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.Thanks man. My post history is a goldmine of this type of stuff, so you can check it out if interested. | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 10:43 PM |
| 1 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.Testing. Experience. Messing up | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 10:42 PM |
| 3 | 𝕿𝖍𝖊 #1 𝕿𝖍𝖎𝖓𝖌 𝕿𝖍𝖆𝖙 𝕶𝖎𝖑𝖑𝖘 𝕬𝖙𝖙𝖗𝖆𝖈𝖙𝖎𝖔𝖓.Lmao this is the best | /r/seduction | 18/09/20 10:32 PM |
| 1 | How to get girls to admire you.https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCFBL_c9rVNDnnBUjr0eg3ug?view_as=subscriber | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 03:50 AM |
| 1 | How to get girls to admire you.thanks man. It's been quite a wild ride. | /r/seduction | 17/09/20 03:43 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝You know how to behave in a classroom. You know how to behave around your parents, your friends, your co-workers. Thats all that means. | /r/seduction | 15/09/20 11:16 PM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝Not true. You dont need to be attractive or charismatic for this to work. Thats the point. Normal is already attractive. | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝The only thing stopping you from making it more is going for the makeout, going for the sexuality. With any of these chicks, do you try to get physical with them within the first few times of knowing them> | /r/seduction | 12/09/20 01:04 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝i would love to help you get out of this toxic, false mind set, if you are open minded to new evidence. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:53 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝The post wasn't about being yourself. The post was saying you don't need to do anything extra to spice it up. Most of the time, that extra stuff comes from a place of self doubt and low self worth. That means most of the time you don't need to make her laugh etc. You just need to make her feel comfortable. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 04:38 AM |
| 1 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝You dont need to be comfortable with yourself. You just need to not over compensate (dont be a dancing monkey trying to prove yourself) You can feel like shit and still not try to oversell yourself. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 03:05 AM |
| -3 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝This is absolutely not what this post is about. Maybe all that stuff helps, but it is far from necessary. Girls just love guys because they have a dick. Thats it. Thats the sexuality disconnect. | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 03:05 AM |
| 2 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝If joke, lmao. If not, It may be fun or amusing, but then many times you will alienate the girl :P | /r/seduction | 11/09/20 02:27 AM |
| 68 | 𝐁𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐂𝐨𝐧𝐯𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 𝐈𝐬 𝐀𝐥𝐥 𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐍𝐞𝐞𝐝 𝐓𝐨 𝐆𝐞𝐭 𝐋𝐚𝐢𝐝Yes. Exactly this | /r/seduction | 10/09/20 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Escalation 101This is the reality of the world. And its LIBERATING. if you have the burden of taking the action, that makes it OKAY. Because even if you fuck up, it makes it OKAY to fuck up. its expected of you to fuck up. | /r/seduction | 08/09/20 04:08 AM |
| 2 | Escalation 101practice. Try to joke around. Lightheartendess is spontaneous, which only comes through action. after a week or two weeks of talking to girls every day, you'll see how to make stuff playful naturally. Its a vibe, not a technique. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Escalation 101A perfect interaction doesnt exist. What spices it up are the breaks in rapport, but still staying strong and unphased. I see this mindset hinder a lot of guys. If you go out, you'll realize that most guys are completely uncalibrated, slobs, weird, but girls still love that. Thinking you need to make the interaction perfect puts her on a pedestal. If you think you're already enough, she already likes you, you'll realize that you can make many mistakes and it's all good. In fact it can be a turn … | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 05:07 PM |
| 1 | Escalation 101Lmao | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Escalation 101In my experience, this only works if you dont wait for a response and go for it anyways. Her "no" is not reciprocating, or brushing you off. And most of the time, it's not that they aren't down for it or aren't attracted to me. They love the gesture of me going for it. Rather, maybe it's not the right moment. When I've said sorry, 9/10 times girls get disgusted that I'm apologetic, and they ask "why are you sorry". In my experience, it's a SUPER turn on when you give yourself permission and "tak… | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Escalation 101This comment is so wrong I don't know where to start. But the only way to realize it's wrong is through experience. This is your anxiety speaking, not you, I understand. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Escalation 101Escalation ladder is a meme. Pua's created it becUse they think they needed it. And it just allowed them to go for it. So they put the praise on the ladder instead of realizing that what got them the girl was just going for it, and the "ladder" had nothing to do with it. There are so many times I've made out with a girl off the open. Pulled a girl and banged in 5 minutes. If I thought I needed a ladder, all those experiences wouldnt have happened. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 04:58 PM |
| 3 | Escalation 101Looking at her eyes and lips, talking about lighthearted stuff, being playful, flirting, joking around instead of talking about super serious stuff that kills the vibe. Not acting like a clown, - acting dominant. All these things can be done without touching her. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 04:55 PM |
| 31 | Escalation 101Thats not true :). Ive had many times where im not physical and then I get physical. As long as you frame the interaction as man-to-woman in your vibe, you're fine. | /r/seduction | 06/09/20 03:23 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls to admire you.Typical stuff: Laser eye contact, slight smirk, extreme comfortability in my own body, creativeness and spontaneity, dominance, masculinity, ability to lead the conversation/interaction constantly, slightly sexual, relaxed posture, confident body language. But the point is: I dont micro manage this stuff. In practice, I just follow the process I listed in this post (break through my limiting beliefs), and I do all of this stuff naturally. When you drop your identity, and you put no pressure or e… | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 04:46 PM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.Ah yes, this makes sense. Suspense is key. Also making it a journey is so good too. Yeah, I noticed when I reveal everything about myself very quickly, it's a turn off as well. Well said, thanks for elaborating and explaining. I stand corrected. Mystery is a ++ | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:49 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.In my experience, mystery and ambiguity don't really correlate to attraction. The rest is spot on. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:26 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.Lmao if that's truly adventurous and interesting / funny to you, fuck yeah bro | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:25 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.My identity as a kid was a loner or a pariah. I wanted to learn how to get out of that identity. When I started to do the things I read online, and I saw that I was genuinely becoming a different person, that's when it clicked. I just wholeheartedly believed what I read online, took action, and was amazed at the results. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:24 AM |
| 2 | How to get girls to admire you.Years and years of experience. When I exude those traits, I noticed that I become magnetic to women. | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:23 AM |
| 3 | How to get girls to admire you.that's what you THINK you like, but you can't deny it turns you on if there's a confident man that makes you feel comfortable, taken care of, and safe. A capable, self-reliant guy. Those are the traits I mean by that. I'm not saying women don't like to take charge as well. All I'm saying is that taking charge and being assertive and dominant are masculine traits. Not purely subject to men. All men and all women have masculine and feminine sides to them. If you're attracted to masculinity, you wi… | /r/seduction | 29/08/20 08:22 AM |
| 8 | How To Get Girls Mirin' YouIt's no secret that every guy wants a girl to give him those eyes of sheer fascination. Just like its a huge turn on to guys when women are feminine, submissive, and completely supportive... Women love men that take charge, are on their path, and don't seek validation. They love the stereotypical 'unwavering stone'. The man who isn't phased by his emotions. The man they can rely on no matter what. How do you portray this image? It doesn't matter if you're 18 and still live with your mom, or 40 a… | /r/seduction | 28/08/20 05:48 PM |
| 2 | How To Be Unphased From Shit Tests.Okay, thanks for the heads up. Will write a text post to accompany it next time. :) | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 10:03 PM |
| 1 | An expat in Netherlands, in need of some direction or practical tips. [long read]I know all these guys on this sub really glorify getting your life in shape and then a date will magically happen. The hard truth of the matter is this: the only way to get better at socializing... is to focus purely on that. Personally, I've been fat, skinny, homeless, wealthy, etc... these factors didn't matter in order to attract a girl. The only thing that matters is if you know the actions you need to take in order to make a girl feel good around you. And how do you learn those actions? Thr… | /r/seduction | 01/08/20 07:59 PM |
| 1 | How to Generate a Natural, Organic Conversation Even When You Feel AnxiousTL;DR: If you approach conversation and dating through the lens of 'how do i be the most curious', or 'what are the craziest assumptions I can make', it becomes a fun game (and takes the awkwardness and self-sabotage identity / fear of rejection out of it). By being curious, you free your brain bandwidth up to think clearly. By making assumptions, you give yourself opportunities to be naturally flirty, polarizing, and charming. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 02:10 AM |
| 2 | "You don't ask fish how to catch fish . You ask a fisherman.”Just go out and talk to girls and figure it out for yourself. Given that you're on this sub, you probably already have enough information. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 11:46 PM |
| 3 | How to ask out your crushBeen gaming since I was 17 | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 05:55 PM |
| 3 | How to ask out your crushThe confidence doesnt matter. You can completely doubt yourself, yet do the correct actions. You know what to do: ask her out. Thats it. You dont have to do A B C D E F G. Just ask her out, even if youre uncomfortable, even if youre nervous, even if youre not confident, even if youre doubtful. Theres no way around it. Thats how you build confidence. Even when you're in a scary situation, and you arent feeling the best, you CAN make the decision to do it. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How to really stop putting women on a pedestal?Theres no easy way to do it. Gotta go through the mud. By approaching girls, getting rejected, getting your heart broken, recuperating, etc, you'll learn that girls are only human too. They shit, eat, and breathe, just like the rest of us. There are no shortcuts. The more intense situations you put yourself through, the more you are willing to break down your ego and previous beliefs, the faster you will transform. | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 10:06 AM |
| 1 | You’re under no obligation to be consistent with who people think you are.Grow into someone others like- But grow not for pleasing others, for pleasing yourself. No matter who you are, people will always love and hate you. The most congruent version of yourself will alienate some people by design. But on the other hand it will magnetically attract people that would love you even harder. Polarity is key. Btw this is a really good vid about polarity https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sGO_xhALp_s | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 01:46 AM |
| 1 | You’re under no obligation to be consistent with who people think you are.What word would you use in replacement? | /r/seduction | 13/06/20 01:44 AM |
| 2 | If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chanceLmao thats not true. If you're REALLY GOOD at sex and she can feel that dominant, masculine, authentic vibe off of you, then she will fall head over heels for you. Its the narrative of this sub that you have to work on your looks, finances, physique, etc. to get girls. While they do all help, the bottom line, what matters the most, is your confidence, vibe, and social skills. You can attain that without anything else. *Not a good idea to ignore everything but chicks though, because even if you g… | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 08:32 PM |
| 2 | How to be polarizing, and why it's important.How to be polarizing, and why it’s important: By nature, Opinions are Polarizing, but people love that. People want a range of emotions. Emotions in them of themselves have value.The shocking someone or something is, the more entertaining and enjoyable it is (just look at media) So how do you work on this? You talk to a lot of people you’ve never met, as there will be no repercussions if you say something too outlandish. (just takes the pressure off of yourself. Take the outcome away). Polarity … | /r/seduction | 14/05/20 04:34 PM |
| 0 | How to get yourself to actually push through your anxiety to start conversationsLong story short: Identify the list of your problems: the things that bother you that you need to fix/work on. Work on them from top to bottom. If dating happens to be the most important thing for you, then you will have much less resistance when you work on progression. That said, if you have other more important things, such as your living situation or health, that bother you more, work on those first. Secondly, realize that the fact that you like a girl is the emotion she desires. You don't n… | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 05:26 PM |
| 2 | 5 Cringey Mistakes Men Make With Girls (With Easy Fixes)I used to believe in myth 2, but its true. | /r/seduction | 11/05/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | How to Not Be Attached to a Certain GirlFirst thing to realize: Any single girl isn’t the whole world. Thus, the resulting action: Keep on chatting to other girls and focus on yourself instead of chasing the external result. Your infatuation mirrors your actions and time. The more focus you put on thinking about or trying to get a certain girl, the bigger impact she will have over your emotional state. When guys tell me about a girl they really like, their perception is often hyperfocused and zoomed into the girl being their entire re… | /r/seduction | 07/05/20 04:21 PM |
| 1 | Dating During QuarantineThe 3 things you can do: 1: Join Zoom Chat groups and use dating sites. 2: Fulfill the deficiencies you've been procrastinating, the things you've been wanting to progress on 3: Research about things to prep for the hustle after Quarantine Caveat: It's also a prime time to make new fuck-buddies because everything is like a bubble. But just be careful with who you meet. | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 08:31 PM |
| 2 | How to most effectively apply and ingrain the information you learn in order to pull consistentlyYou're right, I'm still working on getting my titles right to encompass the point in the video while still being engaging. Changed the video title, unfortunately can't change reddit titles. Thanks for the tip :) | /r/seduction | 26/03/20 07:47 PM |
| 2 | How to most effectively apply and ingrain the information you learn in order to pull consistentlyTL;DR-The key to getting laid is actually IMPLEMENTING what you learn. This is how: -Actively engage and focus when you are learning information -Write notes down. This helps retain information. -Additionally, notes are incredibly important as reminders when you are working on improving your social skills/out -An external influence is often necessary to remind you of advantageous beliefs/headspaces/concepts when you are entrenched in bad emotion or your normal autopilot action pattern -Your crit… | /r/seduction | 25/03/20 06:22 PM |
| 13 | How are teenagers able to get laid and find relationships so easily!They take things more lightly and hormones are raging so its a lot easier to hook up. | /r/seduction | 17/03/20 09:15 PM |
| 45 | 3 things can do when you want to talk to a girl in an awkward situation.tl;dr -Act before there is a chance for you to hesitate. Buying into hesitation just makes talking to the girl you want harder and harder, as more anxious mental dialogue creeps in. -Even if you hesitate, remember that your thoughts aren't reality. A good way to frame your thoughts is to be curious about how you can handle them. Try to see your anxiety as a conflict or puzzle for you to solve. -You can easily get excited and addicted to your uneasiness when you view it as a game. (Also, you will… | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 07:02 PM |
| 6 | The key to getting results on a bad night/when anxious. (w/ infield)tl;dr: -Even when you’re filled with anxiety, you can focus on the fundamentals that you have influence over, such as eye contact, loudness of your voice, body position, and other internals -Realize your negative emotions are not a big deal, they will eventually pass. All the thoughts that come from your negative emotions are not accurate understandings of reality. -You don’t need to feel good in order to talk to a girl, or in order for her to like you. -Know that if you take the correct action … | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 12:43 AM |
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