Do you have someone you're crushing on? The way to get her is simpler than you think. The reason you may complicate it in your head is because of a sexuality disconnect.

What should you do in order to get your crush? Just ask her out. There's a concept in female psychology: girls like masculine, unapologetic guys that go for what they want, no empathy.

Overly empathetic guys can often be seen submissive or supplication in the scope of masculinity and sexuality.

Think about it this way: rock stars and celebrities often hook up with chicks immediately, without asking for permission. They go for what they want without a preconceived notion of if it's 100% okay. Instead, they just go for it, and if the girl doesn't like it, they don't go through with it.

When you go for something, when you put yourself on the line you're open to rejection. That's a form of virtue signaling.

You're telling the girl you do this a lot (and it works a lot).

You're telling the girl you're confident.

You're telling the girl that you don't care if you get rejected.

Thus, when you ask a girl out, even if you get a 'no', it's a positive.

The only thing that might make it a negative is because of how you rationalize it in your mind, or because of how you take it personally.

By asking a girl out, (or going for a hand hold/kiss) you show her that you go for what you want, you show her that you like her, and you show her that you're a go-getter.

Don't get down on yourself if you get a no, and don't project your predicted reality on what is actually going to happen, or how it's going to make her feel.