How to go for it

johannthegoatman · 2014-10-19T03:17:16+00:00

For me, planning is the enemy. If she seems receptive, just go say hi and start chatting. Imagine you are sitting there studying with a hot girl across the table. Would you be upset if she just started randomly talking to you? No. Now imagine she seems to have pre planned the whole conversation, hoping to get something from you. Not as attractive. If you did have a lot of work, and didn't want to chat, or you're not single, you'd probably just politely say so. It's not that different. Stop thinking, walk up and open your mouth. You will only have nothing to say is you are thinking about what to say. It doesn't really matter what you say, especially as you're just starting out.

seddittips · 2014-10-19T03:57:54+00:00

Seddit helps improve yourself a lot but nothing beats actually doing it. You can plan all you want but just so you know it'll never go as planned. Just know you can't fake it, you gotta just do it and you are who you are, if the girl likes you then great but if she doesn't then it wasn't meant to be. The more I experience things the less time I spend on seddit and planning in general. The more experience I get the more I understand what seddit is about. As for making moves I never force it, I just do it and most of the time I don't even notice myself doing these things like kissing the girl or having my arm around her. That is when it's more natural and feels better, when you force things sometimes they get a bit awkward and doesn't come out like you expected. I never plan for a kiss, if it happens then it does if it doesn't then I don't get worked up over it.

jeanisss · 2014-10-19T04:15:26+00:00

Just make sure that you convey interest as soon as possible. Otherwise it will really be a "study" group not sexual interest. =)

jacks_not_surprised · 2014-10-19T03:18:31+00:00

What do you mean by "go for it"?

Approach her? Tell her you like her? Kiss her? Make babies with her?

Which one?

Title	How to go for it
Author	MusaTheRedGuard
Upvotes	27
Comments	11
Date	October 19, 2014 12:08 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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