How to keep a woman

CharlotteVousEcoute · 2026-01-19T15:45:45+00:00

Unfortunately, there's no instruction manual. Kindness and interest for some, indifference for others.

The only advice that can really help you is: Be yourself. It sounds too easy and silly, but thanks to that, you'll find someone who will love your personality and make her stay.

Broad-Cranberry-9050 · 2026-01-20T18:20:41+00:00

There's. not a set way to do it. Like the other commenter said, be your genuine self. If you are asking this question it's because youa re putting too much important in getting the number, being careful with what you say, etc.

I have found when i dont care about whether she likes me or not, i dont care about keeping her hooked and interested, my conversation flows more natural and the girl ends up more interested.

PostAvailable9966 · 2026-01-19T15:45:41+00:00

Nothing specifically that you can induce. At the end of the day, a cold approach will revolve around the following topics:

- where you are both are from

- what is are your jobs

- what you are doing now (daygame), social setting (nightgame)

Once you are in set, conversation is still about you and her, and the DHVs and Value follow Mystery all the way back from 2005, i.e.:

- Leader of Men

- Takes initiative action, etc.

What matters more is how you say it, there is a Daygame concept of "Analog vs Digital communication", i.e. aim for colorful emotional language, with big emphasis on social setting expressions.

Finally, a good way to showcase value, is to capitalize on attraction with (gradual) escalation. This connects Attraction with Social intelligence and Seduction.

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Now, you must have noticed, I didn't include any specific lines. Because, aside from these general principles, whether she will stay or not, is up to her. Not in your control.

It can be a boyfriend, not her type, point in her cycle or a billion other things.

Focusing on anything more than those principles won't yield much in terms of practicality.

Therefore the high level principles are:

- stranger friendly topics

- attraction (DHVs, Rapport Breaking and calibrated escalation)

- Hope it lands

Title	How to keep a woman
Author	Kindly-Tough-2091
Upvotes	5
Comments	3
Date	January 19, 2026 3:06 PM UTC (6 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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