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[–]DiminishedChord 2 points3 points4 points 4 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Try leaving every conversation with something intriguing/mysterious/pending etc. I don't know how to say it in words, as I am too tired rn, but what I mean is how they end an episode of season leaving you wanting to find out more. So, talk less and leave them wanting to hear more.
[–]vroomvroomski 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Thanks for the advice! I would be interested to hear some specific examples of how I could end conversations in these ways.
Like right now I was giving her some advice and I'm not sure how to end the convo to keep her wanting more. And in general, I don't know how to make mysterious/pending comments
[–]DiminishedChord 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
probably an anecdote, like say ' you know what happened yesterday, you won't believe it...' and in the next message just go like ' nevermind ill tell you later, gotta go' something like that but don't do it very often and also don't use the same template over and over again. think of something new. works like a charm
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[–]vroomvroomski 0 points1 point2 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I don't think that would work in my situation because she's the one initiation convos, would be pretty weird to just not acknowledge what she's saying. I'm not convinced that would increase her attraction to me but maybe
[–]AdInteresting8466 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You don’t have to stop replying or pick up less of her calls, what i would do is to answer and tell her hey i’m at the gym right now can i call you back in an hour or so, etc. Basically be productive and don’t dedicate so much time talking to her, answer when able. Just don’t commit to every phone call. Sometimes i would say that i would call back and not call back until several hours later. This made her go crazy for me, later i would then text her hey i’m on my way home i’ll call you in so and so minutes. Makes her really wonder what you’ve been up to
Yeah she usually calls at night so I have to make myself busy then too. The difficulty for me is finding the balance between being busy and giving her enough of my time
[–]Subject-Craft5870 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Try to stop constantly texting her and tone that down…. Use the phone for setting dates only to see her in person …..you have probably been talking to her way too much. She obviously has high interest. Try to tone down the texts. Set dates and see her in person where she can get to know you.
[–]dobbs1997 1 point2 points3 points 4 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
You’re gonna mess it up because already it seems you’re already putting her on a pedestal, “really hot girl” ? also you’re worried she’s gonna get bored of you ? worried about all these things you shouldn’t be tripping about, run things the way you wanna run them, In my opinion texting should really only be used to set up the meet ups, not texting eachother back and forth all day.
I needed this bro
Learned not to do that from experience 😅
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