I'm a 5'4" Asian male and my FB is a 5'11" white female (HB8). We just had sex tonight for the second time (the first was after a Christmas party). Prior to the sex, we had our "rules" talk:

  1. We continue to see other people.

  2. The moment one gets emotional, they must speak up and we'll talk.

  3. No sleepovers. A simple peck on the lips for good-bye at the door will be the standard.

  4. Kissing is ok and is encouraged. (She wants to kiss. I'm cool with that.)

  5. Frequency is based on urge. It's ok to say, "I'm busy", etc.

  6. Multiple rounds in the same night will be played by ear. (Tonight, we were tired after the first round and it was late.)

Use of condom is a given, of course. Yes, I wore one.

Do you have any tips on how to maintain a successful FB relationship?

What about the mindset? I mean, I'm her fuck buddy because "I'll do." Kind of a mindset killer, eh? But, hey... I'm fucking.