How to not make texts sound like we're interviewing each other?

sophisticateddonkey · 2019-09-14T13:15:20+00:00

Talk to her like you talking to your best friend. Tease but be nice about it

axe122 · 2019-09-14T15:32:50+00:00

I’m here tryna find help with the pickup social anxiety aspect of things but I did a ton of online dating (having trouble with approaching irl) I recommend asking her a question to something you can make a joke about or if you ask her what she does for work again when she returns the question and if she doesn’t just send a text as if she did tell her some job title the sounds funny like sexy janitor and tell her all the perks of being a sexy janitor I have the skills to clean my own house,I’m vicious with a swifter and I get to sleep in the janitors closet rent free if I sleep in my u inform then see how she responds don’t be to fast to tell her your real job but she’ll probly joke around with it for a little and be like so your clean my house? Now your in a conversation and when that bantering is done or played out tell her I’m just playing I’m really a ..... I know you were excited to meet a sexy janitor guess you gotta keep looking and then ask another fun random question but this time don’t make it something you give a ridiculous answer to make it something to you can voice your opinion or history as to why you prefer that (preferably a funny one) then repeat once or twice and tell her your busy but are gonna give her a call at some point when you call set up a date don’t get caught up in texting it’s really a waste of time and especially in a relationship kills the sexual tension

smoothmax · 2019-09-14T14:05:55+00:00

I try to not ask questions in texts to women (for example make assumptions in a calibrated way), but when it's necessary to ask a question, avoid the question mark.

Some examples:

"I'll bet you're enjoying this nice weather" (emoji)

"Great! What time should I pick you up"

You don't want to overdo it and come off as a stone-ass (that's where occasional emojis help) but it's definitely more masculine and less weak sounding.

axe122 · 2019-09-14T15:54:39+00:00

Probly an even better combination is what the guy before me wrote in combination with what I said dont even ask her a question make a statement about her job or whatever it is but remember to try and lead her into your joke topic and just start talking to her don’t be afraid to write something if it comes into your mind think to yourself before you send it you’ll be surprised the things you would think she’d never like this text or she won’t respond and she loves it. Don’t not send texts because your afraid of what she might think but but think if she responds well to this will it make me more or less attractive?(don’t give a shit if something offends her say what you wanna day when it comes to you but make sure you aren’t sending boring lackluster texts they will make you less attractive and boring and everyone you send dries her out more and more till she blocks you)

Title	How to not make texts sound like we're interviewing each other?
Author	Tiencha69
Upvotes	6
Comments	5
Date	September 14, 2019 12:28 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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