How to open?

ikeepon · 2022-04-15T22:54:05+00:00

This whole thing about opening is overrated. When you think like this you get stuck on what to say. Change your mindset from having to open on specific types of people - hotties - to being a social person to everyone and anyone.

When granny is walking down the street and gives me eye contact I ‘open’ with “Hi, how are you?”

When I see the 4 at the cashier and she looks at me I say “Hi, good to see you”.

When I see dudes at the gym I say “what’s up, bro?”

When I see the hottie anywhere and she gives me eye contact I say “Hi, how are you?” After she replies I follow up with something else (comment on environment or reach out my hand and introduce myself).

Once you’re social with everyone you are less likely to freeze and will be more witty on your feet.

I was at a bar last night and it was a bit crowded. Some pretty woman with a great rack turns around and sees me trying to get to the bar. She moves aside and says to me “Do you want to squeeze in?” I looked at her and said exactly what I was thinking: “That’s an understatement.” I wasn’t trying to be witty it just happened because I’m comfortable talking with strangers, including hotties. (She smiled and we continued to talk from there.)

Just learn to be social, in general. People and women will feel your energy and charisma and will be drawn to you.

My 2 cents.

TheDimLighter · 2022-04-15T22:07:54+00:00

Just start being a pro fortnite gamer

aznkor · 2022-04-16T03:55:09+00:00

Andrew Tate's story about "Luke the Man" is pretty insightful in terms of how to talk to girls: https://youtu.be/stZN7F1orq8

Impressive_Sport_713 · 2022-04-16T12:42:47+00:00

Say literally anything. But nothing too serious. Don't act gamey cuz itll come off as wierd. Keep it casual

Zangief89 · 2022-04-30T17:22:34+00:00

You have to do it in three seconds of thinking about it. Canned openers are great for approach anxiety because you don’t have to think about what to say so it makes it a lot easier. If I’m going to open someone I will see again tomorrow then I’ll go with a good opinion opener. The is kissing cheating opener is a classic hall of fame opener. Google it because I’m too lazy to write the whole thing down. Also I like to ask if my clothes make me look gay, like a drug dealer, like a hippie, whatever

Zangief89 · 2022-05-03T00:54:20+00:00

I really like opinion openers. Make sure you throw in a false time constraint. Also you should check out this game on Amazon called Chickenshit. Should help you out a lot, sure does help me

Title	How to open?
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Date	April 15, 2022 9:59 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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