I know that a decent amount of women I meet find me attractive based of the way they act and talk to me, the issue is

A. I’m at work most of the time and I’m terrified of getting reported or some bullshit even though that’s unlikely at my job,and

B. I am a VERY anxious person, imagine regular socialization feeling like a life or death situation, virtually every time. That’s how it feels for me.

B. I have a massive inferiority complex because of my ex girlfriends/women I have talked to in the past.

The only 2 women I dated cheated on me and were not nice about it either (to say the least), and the most recent girl I spoke with basically dropped me after we met up.

To be honest with you since then I’ve been a pussy. I don’t take any chances, and I freeze up anytime I’m near a girl. I am fearful to attempt to converse with them because I fear being judged negatively (viewed as stupid/creepy etc). Deep down I’m terrified of women discovering ‘who I really am’ and then rejecting me.

How can I get over this bullshit? Is the answer to just bite the bullet and go for it during these situations? It’s fucking KILLING me that all these opportunities are being passed up because of my fears. I can’t do it anymore, I have to change.

TL;DR: I have had a few negative experiences with women and have anxiety issues that make it extremely difficult for me to meet/converse with women. How can I overcome this?