Recently, chicks come talk to me first, before I even start approaching. But I always seem to be the one who screw it up. I'm like Beckham,
Not that I'm THAT handsome but chicks seem to find me interesting, and that is, until I open my mouth. I think I say whatever I can come up with at the moment. And it's pretty bad. In my defense, I say things right off the bat to avoid the awkward pause. So either way, I seem to lose (Both when saying something and not saying anything) For instance,

  1. I was standing by the bar and this Swedish girl next to me said she knows 8 bartenders. And in my mind I was like, 'So what'.. I got nothing to say to that but just to avoid the awkward pause, I've got to say something. My response was,

"Do u plan to get to know one of these guys too? (Pointing at bartenders in front of me)" Looking back, I tend to say thing that are leading nowhere. I really wanna learn how to respond properly and quickly. Where do I get to learn this skill? I'd like to get to know and wanna practice like it's my habit.