I'm 24f and I met this guy, 24M, on OKC. We've gone out for drinks twice and both times ended up in one of our apartments, naked. We fooled around, but didn't have sex because no condoms.

I told him on our first date that I wasn't interested in a committed relationship and I was just looking to meet a lot of new people right now, and that my ideal situation was a friendship where we sometimes got naked. I was being honest, and I think he was into that situation too. But I also want to feel like he's at least excited about seeing me, and not just like, "Eh, she's there and she's DTF. Why not." And he's not really displaying the appropriate amount of enthusiasm.

It's been over two weeks since we last saw each other and he hasn't contacted me once. If I text him, he's all, "Hey!!!" and whatever, but he hasn't initiated anything, or asked to set up a time to hang out. Until last night.

I was kinda drunk the night before, so I had texted him a little what's-up message around midnight. The next afternoon he texts me back that he was asleep when the text arrived. I say, "It's cool, shortly after sending that, I was too, haha." He texts back, "Maybe we can find time to fall asleep together soon." I respond, "You have my number :)" and he comes back with, "Lol. And you have mine. I'm sure we can figure something out :)"

Now, my first instinct is to forget that guy. I've already got 5 dates lined up for the next two weeks with men who are cute, funny, awesome, AND actually eager to spend time with me. So I can easily walk away from him. But he has a unique job that could be very useful to me in a couple of months, and I would like to have him in the position of being happy to help me when the time comes. Plus, I think he is cute and funny and cool, too, and we had a great time together, both with and without our clothes.

The reason I am asking this here is because I recognize that he is a student of PUA. He did the 'chick crack,' the kino escalation, very subtle negs, etc. I thought it was cute and funny and flattering in a way, so I went along with it. But now I need help gaming a gamer. I am not sure if he is running something on me now, or if he is genuinely no longer interested.

I haven't responded to his last text yet. So far my best idea is just texting back, "Ok :)" and occupying myself with other men while he decides whether he's going to contact me or not. Any other ideas?

TLDR: Can't figure out if this guy is running game or has lost interest. How can I recapture his attention?