Many of my friends, as well as the girl herself, have noticed that i get pretty submissive around the person i like. It's not like its toxic or she takes advantage of it or anything, but if she needs something from across the room, ill get it because i literally just dont mind doing it for her. But I'm also getting the vibe that she'd like it if it was the opposite sometimes. Like for me to be assertive or more leading when we're together. Like instead of asking if she'd like me to do something for her, i should just do it. Any suggestions on what i could do to seem more assertive, but also keep that considerate attitude at the same time?