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How to transition some rejections to friends/aquaintance?

Change2222 · 2018-01-31T23:36:02+00:00

Every rejection results in the girl being creeped out eventually, whether I try to turn it into a friendship or just cut off contact entirely. How do I...

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January 31, 2018

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Title	How to transition some rejections to friends/aquaintance?
Author	Change2222
Upvotes	0
Comments	3
Date	January 31, 2018 11:36 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7ued0j/how_to_transition_some_rejections_to/
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[–]LingeringGnome 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

You don't.

A man who is ambitious doesn't have time to fill up his contact list with platonic friends, especially ones who rejected him. His time is important, and he spends non-work and gym time with women he is very attracted to, in a physical relationship (or multiple).

When you hit on a woman, and she turns you down, trying to get her into your social circle is needy. It shows you've got nothing going on. At all. Why have a woman in your life who rejected you?

Most guys think, "well, I can make her my friend, and she'll hook me up with her friends".

But that's complete bullshit. When a woman doesn't see you as a sexual option, her friend's likely won't either. Women talk. A lot. I spend most of my free time with my gf, and her girlfriends. They let me hear a lot, because I don't try and control the evening, or talk my ass off, or be the lame ass frat boy. I let them be in their feminine. I'm chill. I'm the rock. And sometimes they reward me for it. ;)

You would not believe how to the point and cruel they can be. While bowling once, a guy came up and hit on my gf's friend. He pre-apologized for hitting on her. When his failed attempt was over, my gf's friend turned to her and said through her teeth, "yeah uh, don't need to apologize for doing nothing wrong". They also talk about what they call "desperate cologne", a smell and aura they claim guys have who approach them, who haven't head sex in forever.

I know this feels like backwards advice, but it's not.

Think of a group of women as a pool of rainbow trout, at the base of a falls. Away from the falls, the trout are finning in the shallows, and even a raindrop will disturb the surface.

You tie on your lure, and cast it into the water. One of the trout swims to the surface, looks at the lure, and swims away as the other trout swim away with it.

Now, imagine the trout strikes the lure, and you reeled in the fish. Then you wait a day, and come back with the same lure.

Social proof is not having a gaggle of platonic friends. It's having success in physical relationships with women.

Find a new pool of trout.

And if you get the same results, improve yourself at the gym, in your clothing, in your vocabulary.

Then find another pool.

[–]Change2222 0 points1 point2 points 8 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

[–]LingeringGnome 1 point2 points3 points 8 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

I have doubts because its usually a case of the girl offering to be >friends with me after being attracted but having some kind of >friction (ie. boyfriend) that I'm interested in befriending.

That's different, IMHO. If a girl has shown interest, but has a BF, definitely keep her around if you're okay with the morality of it.

I'm talking about women who strait up reject you, then friend-zone you. Don't waste your time in this scenario. you'll look clingy and you'll be "they guy without a dick" in her group of friends.

I also think that platonic friendships/aquaintances may have more >value than you're giving credit. I also see no reason why filling up >my contact list with platonic friends has to be viewed as such a >big time investment. Is meeting someone new for a 30-60 minute >lunch to see if we click really a waste of time if there's nothing >sexual going to happen? Again I'm in college, I believe social >networks open up opportunities.

This is a seduction forum. The goal is to meet, ask out, and seduce women in a consensual, fun way. What you're asking for has NOTHING to do with that.

Dominant men who are successful with women simply see a woman they're attracted to, talk to her, then ask her out. If she says no, they move onto another woman they're attracted to. They don't have time to worm and beg and have numerous machinations to find women.

Dominant men with leadership skills focus on work and fitness, and then invest time in women who reciprocate attraction. The more women they have physical relations with, the better they get with women. The better they are in bed, and the more time spent with a woman on your arm, attracts other women. This feeds itself organically until you're swimming in it, and one day you'll look back at the guy who asked a girl who rejected him to be pals as a submissive boy who didn't value himself, or his time.

Invest time in yourself my friend (gym, career, hobbies), not women who reject you.

Be the dominant bull elk, grazing on the horizon, focusing on himself and his world. Note how the cow harem slowly follows you.

Now watch the spike bucks going on salad lunch dates with cow elk that friend-zoned them.... and watch how the cow elk slowly pull away and chase the bull on the hill.