How would you handle this shit test?

informationsilo · 2017-11-24T12:41:48+00:00

There are two ways to get out of shit tests: "re-frame" (i.e. confidently change her perception of the situation, regain frame) or "agree and amplify" (make her shit test look silly by exaggerating it to the point of absurdity).

Re-frames:

"Then why are you always looking at my Facebook profile alone at night?" (Say with a jokingly accusatory tone and a smirk as if its true)
"Ah, well, you may have searched for the wrong name on Google. If you search, "most handsome man alive" then all my info comes up." (Say with a smirk. I personally would do this one for sure - I love just piling praise on myself when around a girl. But you have to "sell" it - make it a joke but project massive ego).

Good agree and amplify:

"Yeah, we are horrible together. In fact, let's never hang out again." (Say with a cocky smirk and then fake walking out on her. DON'T be bitter or you lose frame like she affected you. Make it a joke.)
"Phew, that's good news. I was worried you were falling in love with my charm and handsomeness and I don't want to break your heart." (Say, again, with a big cocky grin. Act like you are relieved).

recyclablebanthas · 2017-11-24T14:46:20+00:00

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Her: "I only research potential baes"

Here's the thing. Whatever was happening BEFORE this line from her, was more important. And you've left it all out.

Whatever happened and was said before this, set her on this path to begin with.

I'd have to know what you guys said before this, but I do know that her comment about "I only research potential baes," is very specific and sounds like something you set yourself up for.

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a

Her: "I only research potential baes"

Attempt to show you that she's not interested.

Me: "better get your research done then" (on me)

Attempted reframe to get a different response.

Her: "but your not potential bae"

She doubles down on saying she's not interested.

b

What would you personally reply to this?

At this time, if you're having to twist her arm to even get her on the same rhetorical page as you, then it's not likely to end. And getting at her is going to basically require a lot of work, and possibly putting up a front that's not really you.

Doable? Yes. Informationsilo covered how you'd start off, excellently.

But consider whether it's really worth it. There are going to be women out there who are going to actually excited to be around you. You shouldn't have to drag someone into wanting to be around you.

The self-respecting response of abundance is to take her at her word at that point, politely wish her well, and peace out.

_xX-BongRippa420-Xx_ · 2017-11-24T16:04:42+00:00

You need to regain control.

ImJustSo · 2017-11-24T17:17:12+00:00

"I know, which is why I said you should get your research done. That dude's out there waiting for your slow ass!"

CrotchFungus · 2017-11-24T22:49:52+00:00

If you say so

gladiator9417 · 2017-11-24T12:28:01+00:00

"Then you haven't researched enough"

Just a fair warning though, this may tick her off a little BUT it will get her thinking.

Title	How would you handle this shit test?
Author	iurimarques
Upvotes	0
Comments	19
Date	November 24, 2017 12:05 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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