Hi Guys,

So, a huge milestone was reached. I came to a point where I can cold approach in many situations. Not every time, but many times. (in the past, I couldn't do it no matter what, and it took lots of effort to get over this really unreasonable fear)

I did about 5 approaches in the last few weeks. Most of them ended with the "I have a boyfriend," but honestly, I think not all of them were lying. The first one was obviously really terrible as I was extremely nervous, but the latter ones became waay better.

What are your suggestions on getting better results?

My line is basically: "Hey, I just saw you, and I thought you looked really pretty and I wanted to meet you." Of course, smiling and overall positive energy.

I don't want to overcomplicate it. I just want honest, genuine connection.

Background: I'm a social, sporty person. I have positive energy, and I can usually connect with people fairly quickly.