I (19M) have no confidence, life experience, intelligence, self esteem, etc, and Im very immature and dependent on my parents. I feel so far behind. How can I improve myself? Where can I start?

Key_Ad_5626 · 2022-02-05T03:56:35+00:00

You should start taking action to become better. By action, I mean do the things that are just above your comfort zone. Ex:- If you can do 5 pushups, try 6 and do it 6 for 3-4 days. Then start with progressive loading. If you can't talk to people, just ask them for a favour, ex:- what time it is, way to xxxxx grocery store etc. You will surely get many setbacks. But don't lose hope.

watuphoss · 2022-02-05T04:37:24+00:00

You will be very surprised about how often violence doesn't start when you are friendly and open/non-judgemental with people.

BigG1996 · 2022-02-05T11:00:30+00:00

All of what you said are because you are 19 you aren’t expected to have anything together

HiImMeee · 2022-02-05T12:58:12+00:00

don't stress over it, you'd be surprised how fast you can catch up.

Heres the plan:

-Sort out sleep. have a constant and long sleep schedule. 22:00/23:00 to 7:00/8:00.

-Sort out over/undereating.

-Find a way to regularly talk to people. For me it's on the uni campus - I see my friends and stranger every day in person and love it due to getting comfortable with it over time.

-Find sports to play with guys your age. For me it's uni clubs again.

^Just do these things. Be brave and put yourself out there with a positive face, and over time, things will sort themself out, I promise

Benbig_ppdover · 2022-02-05T06:41:44+00:00

Start by seeing a therapist, seems like you have a lot of issues unrelating to seduction that needs to be dealt with first mate

Crazy-Reason-5087 · 2022-02-05T03:14:31+00:00

Im going to Washington square park tmrw join me

incognito3107 · 2022-02-05T06:19:20+00:00

You just came out from your childhood, you are not yet fully developed mentally and emotionally. You will get there in next few years. You should find your own way and think for yourself. Life is not making obstacles for you, it encourages you to follow your own path by declining others for your own good.

2022-02-05T14:17:21+00:00

Id start by trying to stop watching porn, and work on putting on muscle/ lose weight / getting fit. Eat healthy. Challenge your comfort zone, go out sometimes, say hi to people whether it be a cashier

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