I always feel second guess after an interaction

Impressive-Drawer-70 · 2024-11-08T19:21:08+00:00

Maybe you did fumble your words and you were awkward. It really doesn’t matter you will always have another chance with someone else. Just recognize the behaviour and correct it.

No-Heat-591 · 2024-11-08T18:00:18+00:00

you already point out the problem, work on that, if you need help get a coach.

norwegiandoggo · 2024-11-08T19:28:21+00:00

You are motivated to second guess yourself for a deeper reason.

Have you previously been clueless that you came across like a weirdo? Did someone else point that out to you?

Do you believe that you're a socially awkward guy?

mkkpt · 2024-11-08T19:35:05+00:00

Maybe you were, maybe you weren't. You do the best you can at the time, and analyse that stuff later. There's no benefit from doing it in the moment.

MindsetsForDating · 2024-11-08T22:37:36+00:00

Would you consider yourself to be harsher on yourself than anyone else?

People tend to forget that our perception of reality is not everyone else's. Two people can have the same interaction and come away with entirely different interpretations.

Focus on improving one or two things at a time (conversation, eye contact, physical touch, etc.), and things will improve.

Blenderchampion · 2024-11-09T00:47:35+00:00

The only question ypu shpuld make is if you liked her or not

Dandys3107 · 2024-11-09T07:42:08+00:00

It's normal and you should embrace that interactions can't be perfect all the way. You can use these emotions as feedback to improve yourself. And remember that it should go both ways, if you put yourself in a place of only side to be judged and responsible, you will quickly get overwhelmed with pressure and girl will feel your insecurities. Think of a date as a ground to check your mutual compatibility.

Title	I always feel second guess after an interaction
Author	ContentSquirrel7137
Upvotes	2
Comments	10
Date	November 8, 2024 5:53 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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