Do I always have to say hi first?

Onzalimey · 2024-12-16T17:39:06+00:00

If the vibe is good in convos you’ll typically notice she will wave or give you proximity. Works out close by to you etc. if she never does either of these though the may not be feeling the same vibe that you are and just wants to get her workout done. Try leaving it for a little while like 3 weeks and see if she does anything

badandgoodlooking · 2024-12-17T03:16:18+00:00

Women like men who make moves. It subcommunicates that you are aggressively willing to take the social risk of getting rejected and go after what you want. Men who expect to be approached will not be able to live up to their full potential, no matter how attractive they are. From experience. Make the first move and say hi!

liftingnstuff · 2024-12-16T17:50:08+00:00

You've had conversations multiple times but have never flirted to the point where asking her out makes sense. Shit or get off the pot.

AnimusInquirer · 2024-12-16T18:26:21+00:00

Sounds like she might be anxious as well. If the conversations are good and she's liking your IG posts take the chance. The worst that will probably happen is that she says no.

For whatever reason, guys are still expected to take the risks, while women are expected to initially maintain disinterest and make you work for it. Yes, it's stupid, but this is the way it is.

toporagno13 · 2024-12-16T22:10:19+00:00

Saying Hi is the bare minimum for every social interaction, regardless of the fact you have a crush on her. Don't ever overthink it if you don't want to come off as insecure or too much concerned of her presence. Women are able to sense such behaviours.

Dry-Programmer-4860 · 2024-12-16T17:50:36+00:00

It’s indication of disinterest.

The only reason she talks with you is the politeness. Move on.

Actual_Student208 · 2024-12-17T22:46:37+00:00

I wouldn't. You say hi because you have an interest in her. She doesn't because she has none in you. Stop watering a dead plant

Bubbly-Afternoon-149 · 2024-12-18T05:59:19+00:00

It’s not what you, it’s HOW you say it

Low_Ordinary_9086 · 2024-12-18T16:30:52+00:00

Most girls will not want to get involved with anyone that works at their gym.

Because that's where they go to workout you don't want to see someone you had a shit date or random hookup with repeatedly every week, that would be dread.

And vice versa. Literally any other places is better leave her being and expand your horizons

Title	Do I always have to say hi first?
Author	ContentSquirrel7137
Upvotes	5
Comments	21
Date	December 16, 2024 5:36 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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