I am setting up dates 4+ days in advance, do I need to ping them to prevent flaking?

evanafter · 2011-11-02T00:44:14+00:00

If you have to set dates up so far in the future, keep flirting with her throughout the week. If you don't talk for a week not only will she have no real interest in you, she's likely to think you have no interest in her.

At the same time, don't small talk her to death or send creepily suggestive messages. Try to communicate with her every 2-3 days about interesting and flirtatious subjects, and maybe even change the venue the night before you plan to go out as a way to tighten her reliance on your dominance.

clutchPUA · 2011-11-04T22:03:20+00:00

Heres my booking plans w/ girls. Find out when they are available, book that date, but don't say wat you are doing or make ANY plans. Say ok lets go out X day. Then say I'll call you X day - 1, to make plans/work out logistics. No matter how busy, I think you can spare time for a 5-10 min phone call.

This way the plan feels fresh even though you booked the date many days in advance.

ballness10 · 2011-11-02T17:10:40+00:00

Day of I always drop a text like "We still on for this eve?" It's that simple.

puaCurveBall · 2011-11-02T18:35:16+00:00

I am booked about 9 days in advance consistently right now, and my girls know this.

I personally just ping 1-2 days before mentioning it, and then again a couple hours before to make sure everything is on schedule.

I think you should have enough presence before the # close to not have to worry if they forgot you.

Title	I am setting up dates 4+ days in advance, do I need to ping them to prevent flaking?
Author	couch_seddit
Upvotes	8
Comments	4
Date	November 1, 2011 9:33 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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