I don’t know what happened

seduction-ModTeam · 2025-04-23T05:57:54+00:00

This post had to be taken down because it appears to be focused on a specific situation or person. While Field Reports deal with specific situations and people, remember that the focus is different:

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topher_atx · 2025-04-23T04:14:56+00:00

Think of it like baseball, except your batting average is going to be lower than that of an MLB hitter. Now if you lower your standards enough you can hit like Ted Williams, but you don't want to do that.

With that being said, make sure you are in excellent physical condition. Shoot for 10 to 15 percent body fat and put on as much muscle as you can. Also wear shirts that show off your physique. Women do this, and we need to do the same even if not quite as extreme.

As long as you're in good shape, feel no shame talking to women.

Just don't be like this one guy I know... we both ride motorcycles to the bars on Friday & Saturday nights and try to meet women. Only problem is he's fat. You gotta fix that first. If you want to attract a woman, you gotta make sure you are in their league.

Last, women often treat men like commissioned salesmen or panhandlers, so don't get too discouraged. You are on the right path. Have courage, talk to women you think are attractive, and get rejected. Eventually a baddie will scoop you up. Godspeed internet friend

ultratraditionalist · 2025-04-23T04:10:00+00:00

All good, happens to all of us. Chalk it up as an L and move on. Journal if it helps you, don't beat yourself up. Seduction is meant to be fun and playful, not stressful and mechanical; that's where most guys mess up.

Ok_Potential359 · 2025-04-23T03:39:54+00:00

Title	I don’t know what happened
Author	xlostgoat
Upvotes	2
Comments	4
Date	April 23, 2025 3:25 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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