I keep getting rejected more often than I get accepted for date

RandianHero · 2014-03-22T05:53:02+00:00

Congratulations: you are literally every man ever. Even the best of us have gotten rejected more often than not. Don't sweat it. Most people don't start seeing their rejection percentages drop until they've been in the game for years, and even then, their rates of rejection will still probably be higher than their rates of success.

Just keep at it. You'll get a bite eventually.

hoorayay · 2014-03-22T04:56:38+00:00

This won't be the best answer cause I'm drunk and on my phone; just an observation or two: it certainly matters how you dress or look, but ultimately it's how you carry yourself. It's hard to do intentionally man, I know that.

For what it's worth, I had banged 2-3 chicks by the time I was 19 and now i'm 23 and it's 20+ or maybe closer to 30. And I'm just content and feel lucky to be monogamous with the woman I am fortunate enough to be with. It's strange, man. I was always told I was good looking too and I was confident enough with people, but eventually something clicks where you don't mind rejection and genuinely wish the girl to have a wonderful life despite the fact that she doesn't want you in it.

Then you're really free, in a way. I had read the game and all that stuff and tried to implement those ideas/practises but eventually I seem to have become a "natural" without really meaning to.

Honestly, the game is great. But my advice is (and it's easier said than done and never easy) but just learn to enjoy people and social interactions, or at least learn to be indifferent to what others think without being an asshole, and the rest will come. I wish I could be more specific.

sharkacolypse · 2014-03-22T05:44:52+00:00

Your body language is a huge part of flirting (I personally think most of it), so try to use some. That honestly could be why a girl that seems interested will turn you down: maybe YOU don't seem genuinely interested because you aren't fully flirting. Give it a shot.

themanbat · 2014-03-22T09:14:06+00:00

As you are 19 and in school a formal date may not be necessary. Invite her over for a movie at your place, kino, and initiate makeout.

rusty84 · 2014-03-22T15:40:15+00:00

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Title	I keep getting rejected more often than I get accepted for date
Author	rusty84
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Date	March 22, 2014 3:55 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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