21 M here. Up until last year, I had never kissed a girl, been out with a girl and was still a virgin. My problem was lack of confidence and being extremely shy in front of women.

I found my first official girlfriend through OKCUPID. the first date went great and we ended up making out on her couch for an hour. We broke up a few months later after I found out about her cheating ways and I thought to myself, "What do I do now? Where do I go from here?"

I came here to Seddit to see what was up and how this page could help me. After reading advice I came to the conclusion that the only way I could test all of this out is to obviously try it all first hand.

I had went out with multiple women after my first breakup. All of these dates consisted of a game, whether it be bowling, pool or some type of competition. Why? Because women love competition. I made these dates specifically so that I could make wagers with these women. Obviously I wagered that if I win I get a kiss, and if they win they get to choose whatever it is they want.

dont go easy on the ladies when it comes to competition. I made sure to win atleast one of the rounds that we played and out of the 5 times I have tried it with the 5 different women, I have a 100% success rate and the dates have always ended with us making out.

The point I am trying to make is I have to thank Seddit for helping me out in a time of need and that if you actually follow a lot of this advice, it will work. You have to remember that many women have the same wants and needs as guys. The others are dead souls.