What is going on when a girl says something, in a very indirect manner amongst other girls, dealing with a minute detail of you. Vague as shit I know... Example: 1) girls talking about how tall men having small penises, in the presence of a man that is 6'3 2) Girl remarks at how she dislikes guys that work at Forever 21, in presence of guy that works at F21....

I've had this happen to me once, but I'm not sure how to handle the situation. Feels as if it's something I need to confront, but I'm not sure how??