SInce I recently opened tinder and have daily new matches. And I also want to meet new girls on Instagram. My question is...

what is the background between us in the conversation?

why do girls respond to messages slowly, every 12 hours or a day?

how can I emotionally make a story for the two of us, to get more reactions from her and of course plans for going out?

I'm easy going and I talk to them without any pressure, purely to have fun with her and I see good reactions, but then the conversation seems to die or sometimes I really don't want to invest more in the conversation.because my conversation background: I am interesting but no one is important to me, I want to see if you are interesting to meet, maybe we can have fun at the End