I got a rare match on Tinder, and even rarer, a conversation. All I did was ask a question based on her bio and we had a conversation based on that. Later I asked what she’s on Tinder for and she said she’s an open book and mainly hookups/dating. I said the same and we agreed on a date based on her interests.

Now here’s where I fucked up. She had different hair colour in all her pics so I asked her what’s her real hair colour. She said blonde. And I said "so is it true that blondes give the best head?" Unmatch.

Before I asked that, I already knew it might be a bad idea. I already have a date lined up and a possible hookup, so why ask this? My brain likes certainly, and dopamine of knowing what a girl likes to do sexually. It likes knowing the outcome before it happens. It’s funny because I don’t do this in-person, only over text.