I don’t follow this reddit but somehow ended up here after a very disappointing night.

I got curved. After three great dates, a lot of flirt on her end (you should see the shit she sent)..I sensed her sorta pulling away as it became obvious I was digging her. Important to note while I was sweet, I was never over bearing or never out of line.

Every time she’d sorta pull back, so would I and she would chase. As recently as Saturday...is this girl loves the chase..and I played it some, but it was also clear I was into her. Our last date was a week ago.

Tonight after excitedly making plans yesterday, she bailed and I haven’t heard from her. I’m guessing I won’t.

I’ve been around the block a few times. I’m not a pick up artist, I don’t play the bad guy role too well. I’m genuine and sincere but never overbearing, and I can play hard to get. I’m not gonna blow her up, put her on blast, none of that. Just let it roll.

Just bummed man. Not quite sure what went wrong. I don’t understand the logic behind very excitedly confirming plans only to bail 24 hours later.

If this girl comes chasing me (not sure she will) what’s my best course of action?