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Im going to approach her

Jeff1211 · 2018-11-13T03:39:35+00:00

There's this girl in one of my classes and I'm going to approach her. Should I just go up to her and say "name, right?",...

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November 13, 2018

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Title	Im going to approach her
Author	Jeff1211
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	November 13, 2018 3:39 AM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/9wlggr/im_going_to_approach_her/
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[–]Joan_Zeroz 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]CalmTiger 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Conor_Niggregor -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]r3dtail 2 points3 points4 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

After you open her, you mention something she puts effort into as meeting with your approval. "I like your nails (ear-rings, hair style -anything she put in effort on- etc.)

You make sure not to tell her you like her ass (tits, figure, eyes, face) mentioning her genetic traits are things she didn't choose to do. They took no effort, and she feels like you don't appreciate her, nor that she has earned your attention if you like her being 'cute'.

After you open, talk about her nails etc. she will likely want to talk about herself. Ask more questions about herself. The who what where when why questions. Once she opens up, you paraphrase her responses back to her, then shut up about yourself don't kill the mystery by babbling how you are like that, you have a story, or you know anything.

LET HER TALK and let her feel HEARD by you.

Touch her to accentuate points and you should be golden.

Try to wrap the conversation up by the ten minute mark, then get a number, escalate in some way to a kiss or a hug and depart or lead her to another venue.

[–]Conor_Niggregor -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link