Summary: I'm 24 years old, male, working and living in Poland (I'm Spanish), I'm 5'7" and have an average face.

I am an active, interesting person and I am very comfortable around people, so I never run out of things to talk about.

I have been in Poland since February and so far I have had sex with four girls. I am in regular contact with two of them. I have had sex with the first girl several times and with the second girl twice.

I'm not satisfied with myself.

And now you're thinking: for someone who's complaining, you don't have such a bad dating life!

The problem is that I seduced these girls through dates, and the first one I had sex with several times doesn't really attract me physically, even though I really enjoy being with her.

I may seem superficial, but I would like to meet other people.

Problem: since I'm 5'7" and have an average face, when I go out at night no women find me attractive or try to chat me up, whereas they do that with my friends all the time.

I met both of the last two girls I mentioned on Tinder. I hate dating apps, I've deleted them all and I don't want to go back.

I'm feeling insecure because I don't know how to meet new women or how to make them like me. The four girls I've had sex with here in Poland were just luck.

What do you recommend to improve my self-esteem and get more dates? No dating apps, please.