Could a person with game do this?

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Certain_Process_7657 · 2026-01-06T16:20:37+00:00

What you described wasn't game. That's just a very horny chick picking out a dude that's her type to take care of her feral needs at the moment.

So no, it had nothing to do with game. They barely talked and she just picked him because of his looks. When a man is approaching/initiating conversation with a woman, that would qualify as working some game.

hunterpua · 2026-01-06T17:15:56+00:00

Yes but an average dude with game could never, in a million years, do it by just standing around. It'll take more effort.

I've done it a bunch of times but I needed to work almost the entire room.

First of all, if I can walk in with a bunch of other girls, I will. I explained how I got a group of 12 models to basically be my wing girls a while ago on this sub so if you wanna know about that, ask me and I'll send it here.

That's a bit of a longer process though, takes a couple months. Worth it in my opinion though because your dating life basically becomes as passive as the dating life of a really good looking guy when you have that.

I have done it in one evening too.

The way that works is say I show up to the club with some of my male friends, what I've done is simply approach a bunch of people, not being selective about who, really, and then just gradually bring more and more girls into our group.

The reason I'm not picky about who I approach is because every little bit helps, the more you're seen having a good time with people, the more welcoming others will be to your approach.

I also do "pre-approaches", basically talk with a group for 30 seconds to a minute and then leave. I then mentally arrange the different groups I approached from the most warm reactions to the coldest and then I return to each group starting with the most warm.

The colder groups will warm up to me the more they see me shooting the shit with the wamer ones. I literally had a girl tell me to fuck off once, only to approach me an hour later to apologize.

Anyway, as I'm getting along with the different groups around the club, I start introducing them to my friends.

I also start the intros with the warmer groups so that even if I'm with more awkward friends that night, the warmer groups will be more forgiving.

And then I just introduce more from there.

There will be a point where the personalities and looks of me and the dudes I'm with won't matter anymore because the fact that a good chunk of the club is congregating around us will be enough to carry us.

And then we just party.

And then sometimes the hottest girl in the club approaches me.

At that point, she's just like a regular girl who has a crush on you. You don't need superpowers to pull her. You just need to know how to pull into a toilet and it's basically a done deal.

And I've been lucky to have started game when I had the worst logistics ever, because I was in college and I was living in an extremely religious apartment with tons of roommates. It would have taken much more game and spy skills to pull a girl to that place. Pulling into toilets was actually the easier option.

So that's what I did.

And it's actually not that hard, especially after you've been the life of the party and the girl was the one who approached you.

Most of the time I just say, "I wanna show you something" take her hand and then walk her to the toilet.

Pro tip though, before attempting to go in with her, go in by yourself first to check out the stall you wanna do it in to make sure it's clean and that nobody will show up to interrupt or prohibit you from entering with her.

Also, if there's a handicap toilet, use that. Much easier to do everything you want to each other in there.

That's it.

The closest experience to your friend is walking into a club with a bunch of hot girls who want you to get laid.

Other than that, work the room like this, and even if for some reason you can't pull the hottest girl, you will certainly have a bunch of other options to choose from.

Andrea-Amilcare · 2026-01-06T17:58:12+00:00

You just described a situation where a woman was overtaken by lust based on the sheer appearance of your friend. How could game ever do the same as this?

optimal981 · 2026-01-06T16:14:23+00:00

I know I am very handsome cuz I’ve had beautiful women approach me too. But I’m no where near as successful with women as my friend who looks like a thumb. Anecdotal I know but, yes game can put you ahead of someone more attractive.

Frog-Leg100 · 2026-01-06T16:52:07+00:00

Confessions I never told anyone except one friend: that reminds me of something similar that happened to me twice where a girl I had never seen approached me when the club was closing and said she wanted to go back with me. First time she was really pretty so I said yes. Second time she was okay-ish and I said yes. Lol Sex was good both times though.

So I honestly think it's just luck and simply being the one who is more her taste then everyone else around. But it's not about the beauty. It's about being someone's taste lookwise but also vibe wise. Most girls pick a guy who seem safe first and have good vibes

Key-Proud · 2026-01-06T16:25:58+00:00

Yes, PUA focus on self amusement and social proofing and try to not rely on crutches like looks and money. - Girls... the hottest girls ... even millionaires (dudes ... not for sex) approach me because they also want to have fun.... for the hot girls if you apply physical touch and close proximity you can get them horny after you or her approaches.... despite if she thinks you are not her type.

I had one girl so horny on the dance floor I was sucking on her tities while everyone taking pics ... I dont recommend because the girl may get buyer's remorse and not get the lay in the end ... but I felt pretty pimp.

The issue with guys who are already handsome ... they dont learn game and have the girl game them. If the guy doesn't lead it will not go anywhere ... unless the girl leads.

CreativeInspector895 · 2026-01-06T17:23:03+00:00

Black pill

ThemasterofZ · 2026-01-06T18:46:07+00:00

Thats dustin or whatever the name of Style’s friend was

BounceThatShit · 2026-01-06T22:46:13+00:00

There’s a couple things, game can be done without words, with eye contact etc, also because he was by the dj maybe she thought he was a friend of the dj etc. also it helps being attractive of course, it would just take more effort and you need to put in the work before she gets bored and goes for a guy like him

Perfect_Reception864 · 2026-01-06T17:23:36+00:00

You just witnessed first hand how the "Game" goes for tall good looking guys. You can read about "Chad" or "Tyrone" all you want but seeing it first hand is mind blowing.

I saw this when I started hanging out with a 6'4" Afro-Cuban guy a couple of years ago. It was insane, this guy only had to show up and girls were lining up to come talk to him. He never had to approach, women were doing the work for him, good looking Swedish model types giving him "Come hither" signs, it completely blew my mind.

Guys like this have won the genetic lottery, there's no amount of game that can compete with that. It is what it is.

epimpstyle · 2026-01-06T16:56:35+00:00

What you’re talking about is simply an issue people rarely mention, even though it’s actually the foundation of everything. You don’t apply "game" randomly and it’s not some kind of magic tool.

- if a woman finds you attractive, you don’t need any ‘game.’ Anything you say or do works. Just show up in the right place and 90% of the job is already done, effortlessly.

- if she finds you unattractive, there’s no technique that will change her mind. "Game" won’t help, "game" is not a magic to change her mind.

So when does ‘game’ actually help?
It applies in the middle scenario: when a woman is neutral toward you. She doesn’t see you as attractive, but she doesn’t reject you either. She talks to you out of respect, politeness, or simply because being social is a basic human trait.... that's all you need. If she doesn’t listen to you, there’s nothing you can do.

From there, her level of attraction can disappear completely or increase by using all kinds of seduction concepts: push‑pull, qualify/disqualify, frames, negging, compliance ladders, kino, elicited values, gambits, routines, etc etc

If you understand what I said, you can easily answer your own question.

jackthehat6 · 2026-01-06T17:10:32+00:00

no. Not if she wasn't attracted to him. He could use pushpull and disqualification and stuff, but it's like bringing a knife too a gun fight against genuine lust/attraction that your good looking friend has

your friend would destroy just about every PUA coach in existance lol

Seen_Any_Elves · 2026-01-06T17:23:35+00:00

Nothing to do with "game". Just a back scratcher in the room when she was itchy.

MoneyPop8800 · 2026-01-06T17:00:57+00:00

Will it happen to him more often than you? Probably.

But game still matters. There’s only so much pussy that is going to come your way without any effort.

Interviewpalm · 2026-01-06T17:24:51+00:00

what happened to girls not being visual like all the coaches say?! They need to re-write the books lol

ps - i have good looking friends who bang hot girls non stop who either approach them or just make it VERY easy for the guy. doesn't really matter what you say (game) if you are her type. It'll tend to work out fine. And if you're not her type, game won't help tbh. Saw a coach kyle vid earlier where he's trying to 'game' a girl who's clearly not interested and she ended up just saying 'bye' adn walking away

Title	Could a person with game do this?
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Date	January 6, 2026 3:45 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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