Im scared about my first time...

DavidGolani11 · 2017-09-24T05:05:52+00:00

think about HER the entire time. Take charge of the situation and be romantic and do all that stuff you see on TV that guys do when about to have sex with a woman. The less you talk the better, less talk more action. If you're comfortable and relaxed and excited the penis will stand at attention pretty quickly.

boonepii · 2017-09-24T05:10:05+00:00

It's normal. Dick size doesn't really matter unless it's too big. And that's only in porn. Don't try anal, and the six minutes you'll last will be fine.

Take your time, worship her. Make it take 20-30 min of foreplay, then have a blast.

Be gentle and watch her expressions. If she is happy keep going. If she looks bored, switch it up. Sometimes it's all about gentle and others it's can be a little more firm needed. Just pay attention.

UnfunnyTroll · 2017-09-24T09:35:07+00:00

Go to the bathroom first so you don't pee inside her.

Goatgod20 · 2017-09-24T05:11:07+00:00

Look at the big picture man, it will be over before you know it, good, bad or otherwise. Your confidence is all she will remember in ten years. Just pretend to be awesome and that's what happened. Perception is fact.

Bobpeel · 2017-09-24T07:31:11+00:00

Oh and yeah it's completely normal. We all feel like this every time

jedipaul9 · 2017-09-24T12:58:19+00:00

A lot of guys get performance anxiety, myself included. It's perfectly normal.

First, make sure you are taking care of yourself. Sleep, diet, cardio exercise, and stress management are the most important for sexual health. Beyond that, just be present during sex. Do what feels right, act on a little instinct.

vm0661 · 2017-09-24T14:39:35+00:00

You don't say how old you are, but if you're young it's almost certain to work. It might work too quickly, so relax, don't rush things, and pay attention to how you're feeling. Don't let the excitement of the moment take over and make you pop too soon.

FruityLexiaKing · 2017-09-29T12:29:11+00:00

Firstly, don't tell her you're a virgin. Secondly, just be confident bro and have a good time. You might be nervous or have undiagnosed PIED and it could kill your boner. However, if you are chill about it and don't break frame you could be up for round 2 down the line.

It's a win-win situation. Either you have sex, or you don't have sex and learn something new to do better for next time.

Bobpeel · 2017-09-24T07:30:39+00:00

Hide your nervousness. Fake confidence but not over confidence. Don't let her know that you feel this way. It will turn her off immediately and if you show it she will smell it. If you fake confidence, she will be more attracted to you and that will make you actually feel more confident. Don't be arrogant, just confident.

ThrowAccount654 · 2017-09-25T00:46:22+00:00

What if she thinks my dick is small?

unless it's way below average no one is gonna notice or care wtf. you think she's thinking that about her tits? "wow what if he thinks my tits are small, my nipples are big/small, etc"

Title	Im scared about my first time...
Author	Blueeyesboi
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	September 24, 2017 5:04 AM UTC (8 years ago)
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