Have you ever had a girlfriend who dumped you for seemingly no reason? And then she started contacting you a few months later?

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Have you ever had a girlfriend who seemed to act cold and distant for no reason over a pro-longed period of time and then out of nowhere she dumped you?

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Has your girlfriend ever kissed you, professed her undying love for you only to later act all cold and distant and within months break your heart?

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Have you ever called your girlfriend when she was having a girls night out and she was stuttering when you asked her who she was with, as she said 6 girls names and then 1 guy? As you said in a deep baritone voice "Who is ...." But she swore it was no big deal or he was gay?

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That guy was likely me, I call him, the other man, and there are tens of thousands of guys out there just like me. We are getting with your girl and all her friends when you aren't around.

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I feel this has given me incredible insight into the way females operate but also what are the effective strategies a man can do to try to keep his woman, in the face of a challenger he has never met.

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  1. Do not show any signs of jealousy? The girls will say he is controlling but then claim at least he cares.
  2. Do not ask who is the guy?
  3. Do not ask why is he there? 2 & 3 show insecurity and women perceive this as a weakness and will attack even their boyfriend if he shows weakness.
  4. Chase other women.
  5. Do not take her back. She has shown her true colors, she will leave you if a better man comes along, and she will try to hide him from you until it is too late (done purposely to blindside you), then she will tell me about it and laugh with all her friends. She only goes back to the boyfriend after I run through her and dump her like a dirty rag.
  6. The guy she is hanging out with is NEVER gay and it is always a big deal. She is just trying to cuck you and assess if I will be loyal enough to her that it is worth leaving you, or should she stay with you while sleeping with me.
  7. You will take her shopping, to the movie, to the expensive restaurant and spend money hoping to get sex. She will of course have a headache... She will invite me places, but I will reject most of her invitations unless they involve a booty call. When you have gone home and are saying maybe next time, I already did the deed with her so she doesn't want you for the night.
  8. When your girl dumps you, it is not because the reason she claims, it is because she is with a guy like me. She only comes back to you when she has been dumped by said guy. She doesn't come back because she thinks of the "good times you had" she comes back because she was dumped and doesn't value you. She figures you will always be there as an option and most of the time, she is right because you won't walk away.
  9. I started to feel bad for the other guy, as such, I want to help them out and expose what is really going on. I seen men poor their hearts out in text and 6 women giggle and shriek about what a loser their boyfriend (or soon to be ex) is.