I'm still way too shy and awkward to approach women in real life, have virtually no confidence in myself, etc etc

I could try "dating" sites (my intention is, however, only casual)--POF, OKCupid, Tinder--but I absolutely loathe the idea of being required to post a picture with your face in it, for all to see. A lot of people are using these apps/sites these days--and I'm not a social person, so I can't take the risk that someone in the area knows me, says I'm on there and tarnishes already a crappy reputation. Beyond that, the odds of even getting a simple reply on those sites are very low, because women just put a profile up and read through 200 responses per day, and give 1 in 200 their email/number, and a lesser percentage (if any) gets to meet them. In short, those 3 sites SUCK balls and can ruin reputations if you're a sensitive type.

That leaves the one site I can use with pure anonymity and still get replies from women (and extremely creepy men replying to my ads where I CLEARLY specify I am ONLY looking for women.) About that, one guy sent me a picture tonight that almost made me puke and/or head to the hospital.

I don't think I have to name this site. But it's my only choice for now.

If that wasn't bad enough, the only women replying to me are girls who have newborn children.. like, 1 year old and just recently, 5 months old. That just kills it right there--call me shallow, but I completely lose interest when I hear that. It makes me think they want commitment and especially monetary support, which couldn't possibly be further from my aims. But those are the only women replying.

TL;DR: If women from "dating sites" of any kind reply and say they have a newborn child, do I run far away from that? (My personal opinion is that's the last thing I wanted to hear and I lose interest, but if there are other opinions, let's hear it)

Are there any sites (besides the one I'm using) where a man can have a profile without his face and get replies from women?