Long and short of it: I've been texting and having phone conversations with a chick who lives about 2.5 hours away (plentyoffish). Normally, I wouldn't even really consider trying a relationship with such a distance between us, but there is something special about this girl. I figure at the very least I owe myself and her at least a single meet-up, then I can figure out at that point if I should even consider trying for anything.

So we agreed about a week and a half ago to try and meet up this weekend, as the first weekend she was in another state, and last weekend there was some big to do with her family. But, as you can likely tell, it didn't happen. I messaged her Friday and asked her what her thoughts were as the halfway point we had agreed to meet at is a city totally unknown to me and asked her if Saturday or Sunday would be best for her, as either was fine by me. So she finally texts back about an hour ago saying her planned transportation fell through and she won't be able to make it.

I've seen a few girls off PoF and haven't had much luck, but with this girl I feel something stronger. We have great hour to two hour long conversations on the phone, she is the one to initiate texting, we laugh and have fun and respect each other, etc. So I don't want to just let this go. OTOH I'm wondering if this is getting ridiculous. So I was thinking of maybe calling her and saying something like: Hey, so I just wanted to see what your thoughts are concerning 'us' and to let you know that though I am definitely willing to at least give us a shot, I need you to know that if we aren't able to meet up within a week or two at most, I'm not sure I want to continue this.

My thoughts are basically that I'm letting her know I am interested, but also telling her what I need, which is to get out of this limbo and figure out if we can even have a chance of working. Granted, I am wary just in general of a long distance thing... Oh, and yea we have mutually seen face and full body pics, no problem there.

So what do you guys think? Should I just kill it now? Go ahead with what I was thinking? Do something else?