I'm worried about outcome on first date

Hakasauars · 2018-03-28T21:23:46+00:00

Focus on the moment and not what's in your head. I'm just like you. I'm quiet because I think a lot to myself and I'm not really present if you know what I mean.

mronson · 2018-03-29T00:00:20+00:00

Nice job man. You've got a date. Just enjoy it, fuck around, try to focus on doing and saying whatever makes you genuinely smile and laugh. That kind of energy will make anyone enjoy their time with you. Be you, don't try to apply some prescription that you read in a book or on seddit. Your behavior will evolve towards improvement as long as you just

relax
experiment with what excites you
analyze the results
make adjustments
repeat

Who knows, you might end up just blowing this completely in a messy, catastrophic manner. And that's fine. You'll laugh about it the day after and attribute it to either a mistake that you can correct or an incompatibility that you have no control over.

Boddicker06 · 2018-03-28T23:16:28+00:00

Try to have fun, focus on having fun and not on her and hopefully you will and then she in turn will also. I feel like you are extremely inexperienced and just look at this as positive because it’s experience you seemingly desperately need. Later look back and see things that you could have done better, but focus on having a good time, and that should in turn help her have a good one as well.

efadrine · 2018-03-29T00:11:54+00:00

Outcome independence. The more relaxed you are the more relaxed she will be and that will translate into a positive outcome or you.

zfgee · 2018-03-29T00:29:56+00:00

If you're in your head, you're dead.
Be you, don't focus on the outcome, just have fun.

Title	I'm worried about outcome on first date
Author	supreemkai
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	March 28, 2018 9:17 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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