Imagination and motivation gone

whoizz · 2014-11-04T16:53:04+00:00

If you can afford it or if you have health insurance: go see a psychiatrist! Sounds like you may have clinical depression. Also, reach out to old friends. It'll be easier to socialize with them. Go outside some day and read a book or go for a walk down a trail. Just do something, anything! Once you start getting in the habit of just doing things, everything else will become easier to work on.

Kitad · 2014-11-04T22:08:53+00:00

Take action. Even if you don't feel like it. Your brain may be sexually deactivating because it just senses that you are unable to get anywhere.

The thing is, the brain does not respond to logic. You have to give it proof. Maybe if you go out, you push through, you get a number, you get a make out, your brain will go "oh wow, maybe something can happen" and your little friend will rise again.

Depression is a real thing that doesn't just go away by thinking positive, that's true. But depressive people think that's an excuse for not doing anything and just feeling sorry for onself (which leads to a continous downward spiral).

Since you still have conscious control over your action and you are able to logically understand that you need to take actions to change your brain chemistry, then you have to do it even when you feel like staying in bed all day. So go to the gym, eat clean, consume dopamine-serotonine-GABA enhancing healthy substances like tea, chocolate, etc., have sex with girls that you like (if you can't do this yet, at least try to make some sort of improvement, it won't hurt), find hobbys that you may like and try them out, get good sleep, meditate, listen to music, read inspiring books, watch enlighting shit. If you can get out of depression this way (and not sink into stimulants like half of people) plus with the help of professionals and close people, you will also develop an iron willpower which you can then use to achieve anything you want.

Good luck

PS: many people don't realize this, but depression can be one of the best things to happen to your life

8sweettooth8 · 2014-11-04T22:07:33+00:00

Is there anything that triggered this negativity and depression? A girl? Your childhood? I would like to help but there's so much I would need to know to give you exact advice.

Have you tried talking to friends or family about your situation?

Believe it or not, you have the ability to completely turn your life around. You made the decision to at least come here and seek help. However, you need to do so much more now and you CAN do it just like many others have.

This is beyond having a woman in your life. There are so many opportunities that are passing by you that you can't see because of your negative state of mind.

I wish I could offer more but there's so much about you that is unknown. I hope at least you're the slightest bit more inspired to do something about it.

Best of luck.

bl1y · 2014-11-04T13:46:30+00:00

Complains about depression and lack of motivation.

...posts to /r/trees.

Yeah, there's your problem.

8sweettooth8 · 2014-11-04T13:34:30+00:00

Did you come here for advice on how to get out of your depressive state or to air out your feelings?

If you make your intentions clear people would be more likely to help you if that's what you seek. We can only help those who seek help, otherwise it would be a huge waste of time.

Title	Imagination and motivation gone
Author	avengeance
Upvotes	8
Comments	18
Date	November 4, 2014 9:27 AM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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