I am wondering if people automatically put themselves into other people's shoes or do it consciously and constantly. I don't know if it's because I've isolated myself and kinda lost track of what's socially and not socially acceptable or maybe I'm just wired to not be able to put myself into other people's shoes as good as the next guy. Regardless I'm still interested in learning what you guys do to be good at knowing what other people are thinking. I was thinking a sales job would really help or maybe it's just a matter of constant socialization. I know a part of it for me is anxiety/insecurity causing me to be unable to think clearly in social situations and not really connect to who I'm talking to because I'm so fear based and projecting my imagination of what they might be thinking onto them when in reality they weren't thinking that at all if that makes sense. Anyways, lemme know what you guys think Thanks