How to become more mentally quick/witty

BestOfPUA · 2016-10-26T07:58:25+00:00

Hey buddy,

First of tall, good job taking steps to improve your life. Not many people has courage to make the changes.

Socializing is its own progress. It becomes easier and easier, faster and faster, as you keep doing it. This is what you need to do. You need to start socializing with people and your quick with will come back in time. Important here is the consistency. You have to keep doing it.

Improv classes can help you a lot. It will help speed up your progress with your speaking skills. I know many people who started taking improv classes and they all said, it helped them a lot.

Braddoc from Love Systems has some seminars about quick witt. Search his stuff, I saw his stuff being mentioned online many time. From what I know, he does not do PUA or teach anymore. But what he already thought is out there.

Atuli · 2016-10-26T19:34:12+00:00

Being witty = being present to the moment.

Witty people are the people who spew out the first thing that comes to mind without filtering through the next five options and give so little fucks they deliver that first option with absolute confidence.

This becomes natural when you dedicate a lot of time to being social.

It feels like the hardest thing in the world when you have that brain fog from not spending enough time interacting with new people.

GentlemenPreferButts · 2016-10-26T13:35:16+00:00

Read. Study comedians. Maybe watch some Sorkin.

juloxx · 2016-10-26T17:36:04+00:00

meditation, cut down of fapping big time, take cold showers before going out .... and cocaine

Thewelshpill · 2016-10-26T13:16:36+00:00

For me it came hand in hand with confidence, it helped me relax more and not fumble my words

Overnight_Delivery · 2016-10-26T14:09:58+00:00

go to your city's reddit and practice making witty / funny comments on random shit

ArchdukeJinnStrums · 2016-10-26T15:17:14+00:00

read books for verbal fluency, listen to stand up comedy to master timing, and when you're watching a funny tv show, try to think of a different comeback than the one the character uses (like when you're watching friends, come up with new lines for Chandler that fit the situation). Also, it sounds dumb, but successfully generating funny captions for cartoons predicted lifetime sexual partners in a study.

apoplexis · 2016-10-26T11:38:51+00:00

Stop masturbating! Will change you forever!

r55r44 · 2016-10-26T16:06:31+00:00

Listen to funny youtubers that have channels with 2+ people talking (I mostly listen to let's players). You can hear them talk and hear the kinds of jokes they make in normal conversation, then try to use similar jokes when you talk to people and hear a good opportunity.

suxess6 · 2016-10-26T23:05:47+00:00

here on seddit, they say 'it's not what you say, but how you say it'. so maybe don't worry too much about being witty, since it's kind of irrelevant

tobse91 · 2016-10-26T19:09:21+00:00

Read 'how to win friends and influence people'. ☺️

qwopRacer · 2016-10-26T15:26:16+00:00

It worked for my by playing mass effect, throughout a mischievous gameplay, and watching TV shows like firefly (watch clips as show is long!)

mostly just be confident and tease occasionally but don't do it constantly as it gets annoying

pingpangpongnader · 2016-10-26T16:46:41+00:00

Struggle with this loads mate

afiefh · 2016-10-26T17:16:30+00:00

I was the typical asocial geek at highschool but decided to change towards the end of 11th grade. Being "witty" was one of the things I thought were amazing. A year of socialization and talking to people later and my witinness was at 11.

It's just rust. Get into the mindset of wanting to be witty, even if you only think of a witty thing to say 5 minutes after you'll improve and think about it sooner next time. If you keep it up you'll have to stop yourself from being too witty.

AshbySea · 2016-10-26T17:19:47+00:00

Improv classes are at the top hehe

Listen to what people say to you. Those words are relative to a billion themes and other words of things you could make funny or sexual or any other thing based on 1) being a personality, not an ego 2) the timing 3) the appropriateness of the situation and people. Everything is a gear and talking to other humans shouldn't be. Work out the kinks and realize everyone is relatively the same. Besides that, my advice is don't give out weird body language or be an incessant perv.

PJ83 · 2016-10-26T20:53:44+00:00

I think the fact that you are now switched on to this will fix it. You are now wanting to become wittier. You will start noticing witty things people do and say and you will copy them. You will pick things up because you will notice them now. Just keep paying attention to it and it will come back to you!

nasenbohrer · 2016-10-27T18:43:41+00:00

i was never witty, my whole life. i really dont know anymore what to do. in every interaction with people i can talk about facts and thats it. i dont know how to vibe and have fun or be witty in any interaction. not even with my familly :(

its not that i dont try. i do daygame and nightgame. im 35. ämaybe improv is the only one thing that can help me.... never tried it.

WayOfTheGentleman · 2016-10-26T07:04:06+00:00

Are you asking this because you're hoping 'if I become more mentally quick, girls will like me more'?

Title	How to become more mentally quick/witty
Author	FatFuckFace45
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Date	October 26, 2016 6:15 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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