You probably have heard of how non-neediness makes you instantly attractive to any woman.

But then, non-neediness is also the direct result of banging tons of hot women to the point you don't give a damn anymore. It's a fucking paradox that makes game impossible for 90% of guys out there.

So before I tell you how to overcome this paradox, first, ask yourself:

Why do you want to learn game?

If you answer is because you feel lonely, envious, inadequate and fearful for the survival of your gene. You are coming from a place of scarcity, negativity, and desperation - the same heavy energy you carry around repelling women, making game 10x harder than it should be. You are like a hungry wolf that scares people away because they don't want to get mauled by you. And women would rather fuck a guy with corona and HIV unprotected than your pathetic ass.

The worse thing is, even though you are desperate, you are not even desperate enough to have the courage to take action.

You eat a burger, play some video games, hang out with your friends and jerk off to some porn. Your pain and desperation simply go away until it will come back tomorrow. A cycle that repeats over and over again.

My point is, to really have the motivation and energy to learn game, you need better answers to the question above.

You want to learn game because you love beautiful women, you love sex, you want to be the best version of your self, you want to make the best of the limited time you have, you enjoy learning new skills because it gives stimulation to your life.

With a positive mindset, game can be 10x easier for you. You are no longer attached to results and validation, you enjoy challenges more then you fear them, you are more willing to fail and most importantly you will gain a baseline abundance and happiness making both you and women feel comfortable around each other.

This is the answer to your inner game. Yes, you can never be spared from your biological wiring for fear and scarcity. But they should account for a maximum of 20% of your incentive.

Becoming good with women is not easy - it's an art of sub communication that has been mastered by only a few throughout history. But just like sculpture, you have to love art and be willing to put in the 10,000-hour of your life to become a true master.