You become the people you hang out with, period. It's the simple rule of nature. All cultures, religions, philosophers and psychologists in the world have acknowledge this truth. You can be dumb as fuck and if thrown to a bunch of billionaires, you will at least become a multi-millionaire. If everyone were all fucking naked, you would be the weirdo for wearing clothes.

We learn things 1000x faster with our own empathetic biology. Learning seduction is like going to school, you have friends who both compete and collaborate with you, and a teacher to instruct you and push you beyond your pathetic self. You can graduate at the bottom of the class but still know more than most people. And every teacher had a teacher, it's the cycle of knowledge. Online learning or learning by yourself is ineffective and slow, it's simply not worth your time. I rather spend $10,000 to those RSD guys to kick my anxious ass around Los Angeles than spending 20 years of being obsessing over PUA theory and achieving nothing.

Get off your ass, swallow your ego and go join a real community.